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Why did Eisav rename his wife Yehudis if she immediately practiced avodah zarah? The shiur explores how Eisav exploited first impressions to deceive Yitzchok, creating a perception that colored everything his parents saw. This dynamic illuminates the obligation of dan l'kaf zechus—to actively project positive perceptions of others—which transforms relationships and earns similar divine judgment.
Rabbi Zweig analyzes Rashi (רש"י)'s commentary on Parshas Vayishlach regarding Eisav's wife Ahalivamah, who was originally named Yehudis. Rashi explains that Eisav changed her name to Yehudis to deceive his father into thinking she rejected idolatry, yet she practiced avodah zarah immediately after marriage. This raises an obvious question: Eisav is no fool—why would he create a deception that would be exposed instantly? The answer lies in understanding the power of first impressions. When Eisav gave his wife the name "Yehudis," he created a mindset in his parents' perception. The name projected an image of a religious, righteous woman. Once this impression was established, Yitzchok and Rivka interpreted all subsequent actions through that lens. When she engaged in avodah zarah, they didn't see idolatry—they saw someone in outreach, or visiting a place of worship for other reasons. The projected image colored everything they observed. This is "marketing"—the first Madison Avenue campaign. The Torah (תורה) hints at this when it says "v'techeinah einei Yitzchok"—Yitzchok's eyes grew dim, partly from the smoke of idolatry, but also because the projected image clouded his vision.
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Parshas Vayishlach, Bereishis 36 (Eisav's wives)
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