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Why did Yaakov lose all his possessions and arrive empty-handed to Rochel? The shiur argues that even though Yaakov was obligated to take the birthright from Esav to preserve its sanctity, he bore responsibility for Esav's spiritual decline. When you do the right thing but someone suffers as a result, you must work to ameliorate those consequences—a principle drawn from the destruction of Jerusalem over Bar Kamtza.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a puzzling Midrash that compares Yaakov fleeing to Charan to someone who kills unintentionally going into exile. The question is sharpened by noting that Yaakov went to Charan to get married and to escape Esav's wrath, not because he deserved punishment. The shiur then raises three questions: (1) What is the connection to unintentional killing? (2) Why did Yaakov lose all his money to Eliphaz? (3) Why did Yaakov arrive empty-handed to Rochel, a situation that caused him to weep? The key insight emerges from the Gemara (גמרא)'s account of the destruction of Jerusalem over the incident of Bar Kamtza. The Talmud (תלמוד) introduces this story by stating that Jerusalem was destroyed because people were not "afraid"—they did not consider the consequences of their actions. Rashi (רש"י) explains that while the host was completely justified in throwing out Bar Kamtza, who had come uninvited and refused to leave, the host and the rabbis present failed to anticipate or address the humiliation Bar Kamtza would suffer. They did the right thing, but they ignored the consequences.
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