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Why should God care whether people find us pleasing? The shiur reframes our purpose from personal perfection to serving as God's ambassadors, creating His presence in the world. This transforms chilul Hashem (ה׳) from 'profaning God's name' to creating a void of godliness, while kiddush Hashem establishes divine presence through our actions.
Rabbi Zweig analyzes Pirkei Avos 3:10, which states that whoever people find pleasing, God also finds pleasing, addressing several apparent difficulties with this teaching. He begins by questioning why people's approval should matter to God, why only interpersonal mitzvos would seem to suffice, and whether people have reliable moral judgment. The core insight centers on redefining our life's purpose. Rather than viewing our goal as personal perfection through withstanding tests, Rabbi Zweig argues that our primary mission is to serve as God's ambassadors, creating His presence in this world. Just as Avrohom made God 'Elokei HaAretz' (God of the earth) rather than merely 'Elokei HaShamayim' (God of heaven), we must establish God's presence through our actions.
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Pirkei Avos 3:10
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