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Why does the Mishna state the obvious fact that living people will die? A healthy sense of mortality is actually the foundation of genuine happiness, since denial of death creates unrealistic expectations and prevents gratitude for present blessings. The sukkah perfectly embodies this lesson—we can only celebrate what we have when we acknowledge our temporary status in this world.
Rabbi Zweig addresses what he considers one of the most important messages for ourselves and our families - developing a healthy sense of mortality. He begins with a question about the seemingly simple opening words of the Mishna in Pirkei Avos: 'Those that are alive are gonna die.' This appears to offer no new information, yet Rabbi Zweig demonstrates its profound significance. He explores the puzzling Ashkenazi custom of saying Yizkor on the three festivals (Pesach (פסח), Shavuos, and Sukkos (סוכות)), which has no early source and seems to contradict the obligation of simcha on holidays. Additionally, he references a Talmudic story of a rabbi who spoke at a wedding, delivering a six-word speech: 'Woe, we're gonna die. Woe, we're gonna die.' Rather than ruining the celebration, Rabbi Zweig argues this was actually a profound formula for happiness.
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Pirkei Avos 4:22
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