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How does one transform from an undeveloped person into a wise Torah (תורה) scholar? The Mishna in Avos teaches that true growth comes through learning from everyone, but this requires specific attitudes. One must listen without interrupting, understand the premise behind intelligent questions, and recognize that both answers and questions contain wisdom worth absorbing.
This shiur explores the Mishna's guidance on how people learn from each other, focusing on the distinction between a golem (undeveloped person) and a chacham (wise person). Rabbi Zweig explains that according to Rashi (רש"י), this refers specifically to Torah (תורה) scholarship, where one must be genuinely interested not just in material but in another person's understanding of that material. The Mishna provides three key insights for learning from others. First, one must recognize when someone has more experience and knowledge, setting oneself up as a student rather than speaking before them. This humility is essential for receiving wisdom from those with greater understanding.
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Pirkei Avos 5:7
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