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Why did Avrohom insist guests wash their feet before entering while Lot waited until morning? The shiur develops the idea that circumcision fundamentally changes a person's relationship to pleasure—not eliminating it, but preventing narcissism. Just as weaning teaches a child that mother isn't merely an object of gratification, bris milah prevents pleasure-seeking from becoming the core of one's being. This explains why Shevet Levi, who never suspended circumcision even in the dangerous desert conditions, was also the only tribe that never touched idolatry: polytheism caters to narcissism by denying absolute truth.
The shiur opens by comparing parallel narratives: the angels' visit to Avrohom and their visit to Lot. A careful reading reveals that Lot actually matched or exceeded Avrohom in hospitality—he bowed lower, invited them into his home (not just under a tree), offered them to sleep over, insisted after an insulting refusal, and served a feast with matzah. Yet Rashi (רש"י) points out one critical difference: Avrohom required the guests to wash their feet before entering, concerned about dust connected to idolatry, while Lot allowed them to wash only in the morning. This raises a fundamental question: if Lot learned everything from Avrohom and practiced it meticulously—even keeping matzah like Avrohom kept the Torah (תורה) before it was given—why didn't he adopt this one practice? The answer lies in chronology: Lot lived with Avrohom before the bris milah. This extreme separation from even the dust of idolatry was a new practice Avrohom adopted only post-circumcision, which Lot never witnessed.
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