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Why does the Torah (תורה) say Reuven "lay with" Bilhah when he only moved his father's bed? Drawing on Chazal's statement that this is a distortion to claim he actually did the act, Rabbi Zweig develops a fundamental yesod: a person's responsibility is measured by his madreiga and understanding, not by minimal halacha (הלכה). What violates only "the letter of the law" for one person can constitute the full "spirit" of a severe aveirah for someone on a higher level—and bnei Torah are held to account accordingly.
The shiur opens with a Chazal regarding Reuven's action after Rochel's death. The Torah (תורה) states "vayishkav es Bilhah pilegesh aviv"—he lay with Bilhah, his father's concubine—yet the Gemara (גמרא) declares anyone who thinks Reuven actually committed this act is toeh, mistaken. All he did was move Yaakov's bed from Bilhah's tent to Leah's tent out of concern for his mother's honor (kavod imo). Reuven was approximately fourteen years old at the time. The question is stark: why does the Torah write "vayishkav" if it is absolutely not true? Rabbi Zweig explains that there is only one way to learn the peshat, as the Rambam (רמב"ם) insists: the Torah cannot write falsehood, so it must be true—yet it is simultaneously not literally true. The resolution is that a person is held responsible according to his madreiga (spiritual level) and understanding. For Reuven, given his level of awareness and sensitivity, moving his father's bed was spiritually equivalent to the act of "shochev es eishes aviv." He violated the spirit of the prohibition even though he did not violate the letter. The Torah records it as the full act because on his level, that is what it was.
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