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Why did Yaakov cry upon first meeting Rochel? Rashi (רש"י) says he foresaw they wouldn't be buried together—but why cry now for something distant? The shiur develops a foundational yesod: marriage creates one body, not merely a relationship. Burial together proves this unity, which is why we learn marriage laws from Avrohom's purchase of Ma'aras HaMachpelah. When Yaakov saw they wouldn't share a grave, he mourned the loss of complete oneness.
Rabbi Zweig addresses a fundamental question about Yaakov's first encounter with Rochel. When Yaakov met Rochel, he cried. Rashi (רש"י) explains that Yaakov foresaw through ruach hakodesh that they would not be buried together. The difficulty is obvious: why would Yaakov cry at their first meeting about something that wouldn't occur until many years later? Furthermore, there appears to be a contradiction in Rashi's explanations. In Parshas Vayeitzei, Rashi states that Rochel wasn't buried in Ma'aras HaMachpelah because she was mezalzel (disparaged) the bed of the tzaddik when she sold the dudaim, saying "lachein mishkav imach halaila." Yet in Parshas Vayechi, when Yaakov explains to Yosef why he buried Rochel on the road to Beis Lechem, Rashi cites the reason as divine instruction—so Rochel could cry for her children when they go into exile, as the pasuk says "Kol b'Ramah nishma, Rochel mevaka es baneha." If the burial location was mandated for this purpose, how could it also be a consequence of her sin? Rabbi Zweig introduces another fundamental question: Why do we learn the laws of kiddushin (marriage) from the purchase of Ma'aras HaMachpelah? The gezeira shava of "kicha kicha" connects "ki yikach ish isha" with the acquisition of the burial plot. But this seems peculiar—why connect marriage specifically with buying a cemetery plot? There must be an intrinsic connection between marriage and burial together.
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Parshas Vayeitzei, Bereishis 29:11; Parshas Vayechi, Bereishis 48:7
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