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Why do we feel uncomfortable giving tips, and why did Avrohom return to the same inns on his journey back from Egypt? Personal service is inherently demeaning — the recipient must restore the server's self-respect through appreciation and compensation. But there's a deeper danger: receiving personal service can lead one to believe honor is deserved, making the recipient think he is godlike. This applies to tipping, eved ivri, and all forms of kavod.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a fascinating question about tipping: why do we tip for certain services (shoe shines, haircuts, hotel porters) but not others (appliance repair)? And why is giving a tip so uncomfortable — the constant anxiety over whether we've given enough or too much? He contrasts American tipping culture with European practice, where gratuity is built into the bill, and notes that while the European system may be simpler, it lacks something essential. The shiur turns to Parshas Vayeira, where Rashi (רש"י) explains that when Avrohom returned from Egypt, "vayelech lema'asav" means he stopped at the same inns he had used on the way down. Rashi derives from this the halacha (הלכה) that one should not change one's lodging place. But why? What special obligation does a person have to a hotel keeper that doesn't apply to other merchants? And why does the Torah (תורה) teach this principle specifically from Avrohom's journey?
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Vayeira - Avraham's return journey from Egypt
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