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Why would the Gemara (גמרא) call it a blessing that Avrohom had no daughter? The shiur argues that for Avrohom specifically, this was indeed a blessing: a daughter would have married into an idolatrous family and gone off the derech. This reveals that Pru U'Rvu is not merely about having children, but about raising them properly—supported by the halacha (הלכה) requiring marriage at eighteen, not bar mitzvah (מצוה) age.
This shiur addresses a troubling question from Parshas Chayei Sarah: The Gemara (גמרא) discusses the verse "Hashem (ה׳) blessed Avrohom bakol," offering three interpretations through Rashi (רש"י)—he had a son, he had a daughter, or he did NOT have a daughter. How could not having a daughter be considered a blessing? This seems particularly problematic since halachically one does not fulfill Pru U'Rvu without having both a son and a daughter. Rabbi Zweig presents what he describes as a simple but profound answer: The Gemara is not saying that lacking a daughter is universally a blessing. Rather, it was a blessing specifically for Avrohom Avinu in his unique circumstances. In Avrohom's world, where he was the sole beacon of monotheism surrounded by idolatry, a daughter would pose a unique risk. While a son would bring his wife into Avrohom's household where she could be influenced toward righteousness (as we see with Yitzchok and Rivka), a daughter would typically join her husband's family. In Avrohom's generation, this would mean she would be absorbed into an idolatrous household and likely go off the derech.
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Why didn't Noach daven for his generation while Avrohom advocated for Sedom? Noach viewed each person as an independent island responsible only for their own teshuvah. Avrohom understood that all humanity is interconnected through shared perspective and values, making prayer for others both possible and necessary.
