Understanding Kedushah: Divine Self-Limitation and Human Holiness

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This shiur presents a revolutionary understanding of kedushah (holiness) that challenges the conventional definition. Rather than holiness being measured by one's closeness to God, Rabbi Zweig argues that kedushah means the ability to remove oneself from the center, based on a fundamental Midrash that suggests human holiness could theoretically exceed divine holiness - an impossibility if holiness were simply proximity to God. The analysis begins with Rashi (רש"י)'s interpretation that 'kedoshim tihyu' means separating from forbidden relations and foods. Rabbi Zweig questions how this could constitute a separate mitzvah (מצוה) when these prohibitions already exist. The resolution comes through understanding that kedushah represents a qualitatively different relationship to prohibitions - not struggling against desire while following commandments, but reaching a state where forbidden acts don't even enter one's consciousness. The core insight emerges from a Midrash connecting kedushah to divine justice (mishpat). Hashem (ה׳)'s greatness is manifest through His measured, just responses rather than personal reactions. This reflects the ultimate kedushah - God's tzimtzum (self-contraction), where He removes Himself from being the reactive center of creation to establish a system of justice that grants humans rights and space for free will. This divine self-limitation, beginning with God accepting the limitation of having a name, creates the possibility for human existence and choice. The apparent paradox - how can God limit Himself while remaining infinite - resolves through understanding that this tzimtzum ultimately enables greater expansion (yitgadal v'yitkadash). By creating space for humans to choose connection with the divine, God's reality becomes enhanced rather than diminished. Human kedushah mirrors this divine model. Just as God removes Himself from the center despite everything being His, humans achieve holiness by removing themselves from the center of their universe. In practical terms, this means that when God prohibits something, it doesn't exist in our mental framework - not through struggle and resistance, but through a fundamental reorientation where God's will defines our reality. The Rambam (רמב"ם)'s laws of marriage exemplify this principle. Both spouses achieve kedushah by placing the other at the center of their respective universes - the husband honoring his wife above himself, and the wife treating her husband with reverence. This mutual self-removal from centrality creates the holy dynamic that characterizes kedoshim v'tehorim. The shiur concludes by explaining that while God's kedushah creates actual reality for humans through His self-limitation, human kedushah enables connection to divine eternality. This asymmetry explains why 'gedolah kedushati mikedushaschem' - God's holiness operates at a fundamentally different level, actually creating existence through self-limitation, while human holiness achieves connection to the eternal through parallel self-removal from centrality.