Wealth Through Giving: The True Meaning of Charity

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This shiur presents a profound reinterpretation of the Mishnah (משנה) in Pirkei Avos that states "masros siyog le'osher" - tithing is a fence for wealth. Rabbi Zweig challenges the conventional understanding that charity leads to wealth as a divine reward, instead arguing that the act of giving charity itself makes one wealthy by definition. The shiur begins by examining four difficult questions: why is charity called a "fence" rather than a reward, why specifically use the term "masros" rather than general charity, what does this have to do with a fence, and why is charity the only mitzvah (מצוה) where we can "test" God. Through analysis of a Talmudic story about Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakkai meeting the impoverished daughter of the once-wealthy Nadiman ben Gurion, the shiur explores the Jerusalem idiom "melech mamon chaser" - the salt of money is lacking. Rashi (רש"י) explains this means that charity ("chaser" - lacking/giving away) is what preserves wealth. Rabbi Zweig argues that true wealth is defined as the ability to actually spend and give away money, not merely accumulate it. Someone who cannot part with money, even if they have millions, is not truly wealthy. The shiur distinguishes between merely transferring money (from bank account to possessions) versus truly giving it away. Real charity requires two elements: actually parting with money and giving up control. The discussion connects this to marriage relationships, explaining that money is often used as a tool of control in homes, leading to marital strife. The Talmud (תלמוד)'s juxtaposition of the sotah (wayward wife) with the laws of maaser teaches that a husband who withholds charitable gifts to maintain control over the kohen will likely face similar control issues with his wife, who may rebel through secretive behavior. Maaser specifically requires both separating the ten percent AND delivering it to the kohen without using it for control. The shiur concludes that charity is not a reward system but a training program - it teaches us to become wealthy by mastering the ability to give money away. Once we demonstrate this mastery, God naturally entrusts us with more resources since we've proven we can handle them responsibly. This explains why charity is the only mitzvah we can "test" God with - because it's not about earning a reward but about developing the character trait of wealth itself.