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Why does Rashi (רש"י) say Moshe and Aharon should lead 'b'nachas' - and what does nachas really mean? The shiur argues nachas means 'putting down your words' for consideration rather than issuing commands. This distinction transforms chinuch: someone who follows orders becomes a robot, while someone who makes informed choices develops genuine responsibility and decision-making abilities.
This shiur analyzes a crucial Rashi (רש"י) in Parshas Vaeira (6:13) where Hashem (ה׳) commands Moshe and Aharon to lead Bnei Yisrael 'b'nachas' - commonly translated as 'calmly.' Rabbi Zweig challenges this translation, arguing that nachas means 'to put down your words' rather than simply speaking calmly. The analysis begins with the Gemara (גמרא) in Gittin and Bava Metzia which states one should speak calmly in the home 'ki heich mikabeile mile' (so they will accept the words). Rabbi Zweig questions why the Gemara gives this reason when human experience shows that raising one's voice often gets more immediate compliance than speaking calmly.
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Parshas Vaeira 6:13
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