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Why does the Torah (תורה) execute the ben sorer u'moreh for minor theft while Yishmael was saved despite attempted murder? The shiur develops a yesod connecting eglah arufah, yefas toar, and ben sorer u'moreh: gemilus chasadim means building self-esteem, not merely doing favors. Without self-respect, a person is judged based on their future; with it, they can change.
The shiur addresses a fundamental contradiction between the din of ben sorer u'moreh and the Gemara (גמרא) in Rosh Hashanah 16b regarding Yishmael. The ben sorer u'moreh—a child who steals from his parents to buy cheap wine and half-cooked meat—is executed while still innocent to prevent future crimes. This seems to contradict the principle that a person is judged based on their current state (niddon al shem sofo), as demonstrated by Yishmael, who was saved in the desert despite his future as a rasha because at that moment he was innocent. Rabbi Zweig explains that the entire parsha of Ki Seitzei, beginning with eglah arufah, teaches a fundamental principle about gemilus chasadim. The Gemara and Rambam (רמב"ם) derive from eglah arufah that escorting a guest is the most important element of hachnasas orchim—more important than feeding or housing them. Failure to escort is compared to murder. This seems incomprehensible: how is not walking someone to the door worse than not feeding them?
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