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Why are spouses not disqualified as witnesses like other relatives? The principle "ishto k'gufo" - a wife is one entity with her husband, not a separate relative - reveals that Jewish marriage creates actual unity rather than mere partnership. This explains why the first-year marriage exemptions focus on establishing the wife's security in her husband's devoted care, creating lasting empowerment beyond temporary happiness.
Rabbi Zweig begins by examining a fundamental halachic principle: a wife is not considered a relative to her husband, but rather they are considered one entity ("Ishto k'gufo"). This has practical implications in Jewish law, such as in testimony cases where relatives are disqualified as witnesses, but a spouse is not disqualified because they are considered one with the defendant, not a separate witness. This stands in stark contrast to secular society's view of marriage as a partnership between two separate entities that can be dissolved at will, whereas Jewish marriage represents an amputation when severed because it involves splitting one unified being. The rabbi explains that this unity reflects the divine genetic code of humanity - male and female components that form one complete entity, whether housed in one body or two. He identifies three fundamental aspects that define a person's identity: marriage (spouse), home (bayit), and profession. These are not merely possessions or activities but core elements of one's being, determined at the moment of conception as part of one's spiritual genetic code.
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Parshas Ki Seitzei
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