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Why does the Gemara (גמרא) say a lion would be a porter, the lowliest profession? The shiur develops a yesod that true malchus means empowering others, not dominating them. This principle explains why a chasun is compared to a king—his job is to make his wife and family feel important, not to promote his own self-esteem.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a Gemara (גמרא) in Pesachim that marriage is described as "ein ve'hagefen, ein ve'hagefen" (alas for the vine, alas for the one who carried it). He then shifts to a seemingly bizarre Gemara in Kiddushin where Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai teaches that if a deer needed a profession, he would be a farmer (due to his energy and speed); a fox would be a storekeeper (due to his shrewdness); and a lion, the king of all animals, would be a porter—a bellhop, someone who carries bags. This Gemara appears absurd: why would the king of the animals aspire to the lowliest profession, one requiring no education or status? Rabbi Zweig explains that a porter does something unique: he makes the person he serves feel important. By carrying someone's bags, the porter gives up his own self-respect to elevate the customer's sense of dignity. This is why we tip porters—not merely for the service, but to restore the self-respect they have sacrificed for us. Tipping is a recognition that we have "eaten" someone's self-esteem, and we seek to give it back. This applies only to professions where personal service involves a loss of self-respect (porters, barbers, shoe-shiners), which the Rambam (רמב"ם) lists as disqualifications for kingship—precisely because these roles involve giving up one's own dignity.
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Bereishis 49:12 (Parshas Vayechi)
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