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Why does the Torah (תורה) create laws for vows when they seemingly harm no one? The parsha reveals a third category of obligations—beyond duties to God and others—our responsibilities to ourselves. Marriage's deepest definition involves allowing our spouse inside to help us with our personal struggles, just as society must help us help ourselves.
The shiur begins with a fundamental question about the Talmudic teaching that Jerusalem was destroyed because people failed to act "lifnim mishurat hadin" (beyond the letter of the law). If the law doesn't require going beyond its letter, why should this omission warrant such severe punishment? Rabbi Zweig connects this to two puzzling aspects of Parashat Matos: why the laws of vows are placed in the section dealing with husband-wife relationships, and why these laws are uniquely addressed to the "heads of tribes" rather than the usual recipients of Torah (תורה) law. The answer lies in understanding what vows represent. When someone declares "tomatoes are forbidden to me," they're not affecting God or society—tomatoes aren't inherently prohibited. Rather, they're creating an obligation to themselves. This reveals a profound Torah principle: we have three categories of obligations—to God, to others, and to ourselves. Keeping our word, even in matters that affect no one else, develops our character and self-discipline.
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