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Esav vowed to wait until Yitzchok died before killing Yaakov, yet immediately sent Eliphaz to kill him. The shiur explores Rashi (רש"י)'s multiple interpretations of "misnacheim"—that Esav had to rationalize killing his brother, that he already mourned Yaakov as dead, and that consoling himself required the kill. A Midrash reveals that reshaim are "bereshus libo"—controlled by their hearts—explaining why Esav's conflicted feelings couldn't stop him from acting on his rage.
This shiur addresses a fundamental contradiction in Esav's behavior following Yaakov's receipt of the blessings. Esav initially declares "yikrovu yemei avel avi va'ahargah es Yaakov achi"—he will wait until his father Yitzchok dies before killing Yaakov. Rashi (רש"י) explains this means Esav didn't want to cause his father pain (matzi'a). Yet immediately afterward, Esav sends his son Eliphaz to kill Yaakov, contradicting his stated intention to wait. This apparent inconsistency demands explanation. The shiur then examines Rivka's warning to Yaakov through multiple lenses presented by Rashi. When Rivka tells Yaakov "hinei Esav achicha misnacheim lecha l'hargecha," Rashi offers three interpretations of "misnacheim." First, "nichum al achavah"—Esav changed his mind about considering Yaakov his brother, adopting a new perspective that allowed him to kill a stranger rather than a brother. This reveals that Esav himself needed psychological justification to kill Yaakov; it wasn't simple or straightforward for him. He rationalized that Yaakov's theft of the blessings proved Yaakov was no true brother, since a real brother wouldn't destroy his sibling's future. Second, Esav already drank "a cup of nechamah"—he mourned Yaakov as if already dead. This striking formulation suggests Esav's intention was so fixed that he experienced Yaakov's death as accomplished fact, requiring consolation even before the act. Third, Esav consoled himself over losing the blessings by planning Yaakov's murder—the killing itself served as his nechamah.
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Bereishis 27:41, 29:11
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