Reconnecting Severed Ties with God Through Small Mitzvahs

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Rabbi Zweig begins by analyzing a challenging Mishnah (משנה) in Pirkei Avos (2:1) which states that one should be as careful with an easy mitzvah (מצוה) as with a difficult one, since we don't know the relative rewards of mitzvahs. This appears to contradict the earlier Mishnah teaching that one shouldn't serve God for reward, and conflicts with the Talmudic principle 'lefum tzara agra' (reward is commensurate with effort). The Rabbi resolves these contradictions by distinguishing between two different bases for divine reward: first, the objective good accomplished by the mitzvah for the world, and second, the degree of personal devotion and connection to God demonstrated by performing it. Using the analogy of friendship, Rabbi Zweig illustrates how someone willing to help with small, unimportant favors demonstrates greater devotion than someone who only helps during major crises. Similarly, while major mitzvahs like Shabbos (שבת) and Yom Kippur accomplish more for the world, performing lesser-known mitzvahs like fasting on minor fast days demonstrates deeper personal connection to God, since fewer people observe them and they require greater devotion. This framework explains the Midrash about a king's orchard: different trees have different importance to the king (representing the objective value of mitzvahs), but those who tend to less important trees with equal care show greater personal devotion. The king doesn't reveal which trees are more valuable because he wants to see who is truly devoted to serving him regardless of the task's apparent importance. Connecting this to the period of the Nine Days and Tisha B'Av, Rabbi Zweig addresses why Yirmiyahu begins Eichah (Lamentations) with the question 'How could it be?' - seemingly inappropriate when one should accept divine judgment. He explains that 'Eichah' parallels 'Ayeka' (Where are you?) - God's question to Adam after the sin. When God asked Adam 'Where are you?' despite knowing his location, Adam's serious response revealed that sin had created a psychological separation where man no longer felt constantly aware of God's presence. The Rabbi distinguishes between two types of divine response to sin: punishment and disconnection. Punishment maintains the relationship while correcting behavior, like a parent disciplining a child while still caring for them. Disconnection occurs when someone rejects authority entirely - like a child saying 'You can't tell me what to do' - requiring complete separation. The destruction of the Temple (Churban) represents divine disconnection rather than punishment, warranting the question 'How could it be?' because it indicates relationship breakdown rather than corrective discipline. The lesson for our time is that reconnecting with God requires accepting all 613 mitzvahs, not selecting only those we find meaningful. Someone who commits to all mitzvahs but struggles with observance shows greater connection than someone who perfectly observes only the mitzvahs they've chosen to accept. During this period commemorating the Churban, we must focus on reconnecting our severed relationship with God through complete commitment, especially to those mitzvahs that seem less important but demonstrate true devotion.