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Why did Yaakov cry when he first met Rochel? The shiur explains that Yaakov foresaw they would not be buried together, which meant their marriage wouldn't be eternal. The Torah (תורה)'s linking of marriage laws to Avrohom's purchase of Mearas HaMachpelah teaches that marriage is meant to be forever—burial together reflects eternal unity, not just "till death do us part."
The shiur addresses a puzzling question from Parshas Vayeitzei: when Yaakov met Rochel for the first time, the Torah (תורה) tells us he kissed her and then cried. Chazal explain that Yaakov cried because he saw with ruach hakodesh that he and Rochel would not be buried together. This seems like a strange thought to have at such a joyous moment of first meeting one's intended spouse—why would someone be thinking about burial at the time of engagement? Rabbi Zweig explains this through understanding a fundamental insight into the nature of Jewish marriage. The Torah teaches the laws of kiddushin (that a man must give something of value to the woman) by using the same terminology found in Avrohom's purchase of Mearas HaMachpelah for Sarah's burial. The word "kesef" (money/value) appears in both contexts, creating a gezeirah shavah that links the two concepts. This seems like an odd pedagogical choice—couldn't Hashem (ה׳) have taught the laws of marriage from a different source rather than burial?
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Bereishis 29:11 (Parshas Vayeitzei)
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