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Why does the Gemara (גמרא) bring proof for kibud av v'em from Dama ben Nisina, a gentile, when Jews compare this mitzvah (מצוה) to honoring Heaven itself? The shiur distinguishes between gentile kibud av v'em, motivated by hakaras hatov seeking to 'pay back' parents and achieve independence, versus the Jewish approach based on recognizing parents' inherently higher spiritual status closer to Sinai and Hashem (ה׳).
This shiur examines a fascinating question from the Gemara (גמרא) in Kiddushin regarding the story of Dama ben Nisina, a gentile from Ashkelon who exemplified extraordinary devotion to honoring his father. The speaker asks why Chazal needed to bring proof of proper kibud av v'em from a non-Jew when this mitzvah (מצוה) is compared to honoring Heaven itself (kavod Shamayim) among Jews. The analysis begins by noting the connection between kibud av v'em and parah adumah (red heifer) found in Rashi (רש"י)'s commentary across multiple parshiyot. Both mitzvos were commanded at Marah before Matan Torah (תורה), suggesting a fundamental connection between honoring parents and the concept of spiritual purification from death.
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Kiddushin (story of Dama ben Nisina)
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