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Why does the Torah (תורה) repeat that Rivka came from a family of manipulators and wicked people? The shiur argues that this is not "despite" her background but rather her yichus—she inherited their extraordinary sensitivity to others' needs but channeled it toward chesed (חסד) rather than manipulation. True kindness requires understanding what the recipient actually needs, not just what the giver wants to give.
Rabbi Zweig addresses three textual questions in Parshas Chayei Sarah. First, why does the Torah (תורה) mention here (when Yitzchok is forty) that he looked like Avrohom, when this miracle occurred at birth and should have been mentioned then? Second, why does verse 20 repeat information we already know from last week's parshah—that Rivka was the daughter of Besuel the Aramean, from Padan Aram, sister of Lavan the Aramean—when Rashi (רש"י) himself notes we know all this already? Third, why does Hashem (ה׳) answer Yitzchok's prayer for children rather than Rivka's, based on the principle that a tzaddik ben tzaddik's prayer is greater than a tzaddik bas rasha—immediately after the Torah just praised Rivka for being righteous despite her wicked family? The shiur's central insight reframes the entire understanding of Rivka's background. The conventional reading is that despite her terrible lineage (a father who was wicked, a brother who was wicked, living among wicked people), she turned out righteous. But Rabbi Zweig argues this reading makes the verse superfluous—we already knew all that from the previous parshah. Instead, the Torah is teaching that this was her yichus, her pedigree, her strength. The quality she inherited from her family and environment was not wickedness but an extraordinary sensitivity to others.
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Bereishis 25:19-21
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