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Why does delaying vows bring such severe consequences? The shiur explains that vows represent borrowing God's power when our own resolve fails, creating a debt relationship. Our psychological resistance to admitting dependence leads us to delay fulfillment, just as borrowers delay repaying debts to maintain control over lenders.
Rabbi Zweig begins by examining the Chazal that states when people fail to keep their vows, their wives and children may die. He explains this doesn't mean punishment falls on innocent family members, but rather that divine judgment considers all implications of our actions. When someone deserves consequences, it only occurs if those affected (like losing a spouse) also deserve their portion of suffering, which can result from the sin of not keeping vows. The core insight emerges through analyzing what vows really represent. The Gemara (גמרא) compares making vows to building a private altar - we're essentially using God's power as a crutch for our own weaknesses. When we can't trust our own resolve to avoid sin or fulfill commitments, we invoke divine power through vows to strengthen our determination. This creates a relationship where we become indebted to God for His assistance.
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