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Why did Hagar distance herself from her dying son while the Shunamis held hers close? The shiur contrasts two forms of chesed (חסד): one driven by how it makes the giver feel, and the authentic Jewish chesed modeled by Avrohom that responds to the recipient's need even at personal cost. This distinction separates the chesed of avodah zarah from genuine avodas Hashem (ה׳).
Rabbi Zweig opens by juxtaposing two parallel narratives: Hagar's response when Yishmael is dying in the desert, where she distances herself "the distance of an arrow's shot" because she cannot bear to watch him die, and the Shunamis who holds her dying son on her lap for hours until he expires. Both mothers love their children and are in anguish, yet their actions are diametrically opposed. The question is: what accounts for this fundamental difference in response? The shiur identifies two powerful competing emotions in such situations. On one hand, there is the unbearable pain of watching one's child die—a suffering so intense that it drives a parent to turn away, to remove the sight and sound of the child's distress. On the other hand, there is the child's desperate need for comfort, warmth, and presence at the moment of greatest vulnerability and fear. The dying child needs someone to hold onto, to not be alone in those final moments. These two forces pull in opposite directions.
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Bereishis 21:14-16 (Chayei Sarah), Melachim II 4:18-20
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