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Why does the Torah (תורה) call Shimon and Levi "ish" (man) at age thirteen when they avenged Dinah? The shiur argues that adulthood means the capacity to give—to subordinate self-interest for another—rather than acting only when it serves oneself. This yesod explains why bar mitzvah (מצוה) is called "bar" (outside): the ability to focus outside oneself, and why "vayigamal" (weaned) parallels bar mitzvah.
Rabbi Zweig explores the definition of adulthood through the lens of Parshas Vayishlach, specifically focusing on the Torah (תורה)'s use of the word "ish" (man) to describe Shimon and Levi at age thirteen. The pasuk states that the two sons of Yaakov, described as "ish charbo" (each man his sword), came upon Shechem after the circumcision to avenge their sister Dinah. Rashi (רש"י) explains that from this verse we learn that bar mitzvah (מצוה) occurs at age thirteen, as the Torah uses "ish" to denote an adult capable of bearing legal responsibility. The shiur probes what this pasuk teaches us substantively about adulthood. If the Torah defines maturity through Shimon and Levi's actions, there must be something intrinsic in their behavior that reveals the essence of being an adult. Rashi comments that they acted independently without consulting their father, and that they risked their lives for Dinah—hence they are called "achei Dinah" (brothers of Dinah). Rabbi Zweig suggests that the key insight lies in this mesirus nefesh: the ability to give something of oneself away for another person, to perform a non-self-serving act.
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