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Why is God's role in marriage described as "ish milchamah" - a man of war? The concept of measured response from Kriyas Yam Suf reveals that even when personally attacked, Hashem (ה׳) responds only to help the offender. This becomes the foundation of shalom bayis - never making conflicts personal.
The shiur explores a puzzling Rashi (רש"י) in Parshas Beha'aloscha regarding Hashem (ה׳)'s judgment of Aharon and Miriam for their lashon hara against Moshe. Rashi explains that when Hashem comes to judge, He comes alone ("yarad yechidi"), unlike mortal kings who bring armies to war but few people to make peace. This leads to an even deeper question from Parshas Sotah, where Rashi explains that an unfaithful wife betrays two men: her husband and Hashem, who is called "ish" based on the verse "Hashem ish milchamah." The fundamental question emerges: why is God's role in marriage described through the terminology of war? The answer develops through analyzing the greatness of Kriyas Yam Suf. While many focus on the miracles, the true greatness was what inspired Yisro: "midah k'neged midah" - not tit-for-tat punishment, but a perfectly measured response. Every Egyptian received exactly what he individually deserved for his own tikkun, despite the fact that they were attacking Hashem's firstborn nation. Even in war, when personally attacked, Hashem responds only according to what each person needs, not based on His own honor or the affront to Him.
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Parshas Beha'aloscha 12:9-10
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