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Why does Yaakov make a conditional vow when God already promised protection? The shiur develops the insight that Yaakov wants God's care from love, not just obligation to his forefathers. This establishes a model where healthy relationships require genuine affection backed by commitment, not mere duty.
Rabbi Zweig addresses a fundamental question raised by Maimonides: How could Yaakov be afraid that Esau would kill him when God had promised protection? And why does Yaakov say 'if God will do these things' when God had already made a promise? The shiur presents a profound insight into the nature of divine and human relationships. The rabbi explains that while God must keep His promises, the recipient has the right to decline. Yaakov doesn't want God's gifts merely because of obligations to Avrohom and Isaac, but only if he personally deserves them. This reflects a deeper principle: healthy relationships require giving from love and care, not just duty. Just as a wife doesn't want support only because her husband signed a ketubah, Yaakov wants to know that God's care stems from a genuine relationship with him specifically.
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Parshas Vayeitzei 28:20-22
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