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Why does Yosef give Binyamin five times more clothing than the other brothers, violating the very principle that caused his own suffering? The shiur argues that favoring one sibling is permitted—even necessary—when that sibling is focused on the welfare of all, not on personal gain. The emotional reunion where each brother cries over the other's future losses models this outward focus, and this principle extends to the purpose of fasting: to feel hunger so we remember those who are always hungry.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a fundamental question about fast days in Judaism: why does the Torah (תורה) prescribe fasting to commemorate tragedies when the Jewish people have already endured millennia of suffering? Why add more pain and deprivation? He sets this question aside to address a textual difficulty in Parshas Vayigash, where Yosef gives each brother changes of clothing but gives Binyamin five suits and three hundred pieces of silver. The Gemara (גמרא) in Megillah 16a asks how Yosef could show such favoritism, given that the Gemara itself teaches (based on Yaakov's gift of the ketonet pasim to Yosef) that one must never favor one child over another, as such favoritism led directly to the brothers' hatred, the sale of Yosef, and the descent to Egypt. The Gemara answers that Yosef was hinting to Binyamin about a future descendant, Mordechai, who would wear royal garments. Rabbi Zweig finds this answer puzzling—how does hinting at future honor resolve the problem of present favoritism? Before addressing the Gemara's answer, Rabbi Zweig asks two foundational questions. First, wasn't Yaakov himself wise enough to know not to treat his children unequally? Why would he need to learn this lesson through such bitter consequences? Second, how could Yosef—the very victim of sibling favoritism—repeat his father's mistake? The resolution begins with the encounter between Yosef and Binyamin on page 501 of the Chumash. The Torah describes an intensely emotional reunion: "Vayipol al tzavarei Binyamin achiv vayevk, u'Binyamin bacha al tzavarav"—"He fell upon his brother Binyamin's neck and wept, and Binyamin wept upon his neck." Rashi (רש"י), noting the plural "tzavarei" (necks), explains that Yosef wept over the two Batei Mikdash that would stand in Binyamin's portion and be destroyed, while Binyamin wept over the Mishkan in Shiloh that would stand in Yosef's portion and be destroyed. Rabbi Zweig asks: why does the Torah interrupt the narrative to tell us about prophetic weeping over destructions a thousand years in the future? What message does this convey to us?
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Bereishis 45:22, 45:14
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