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Should spouses prioritize their relationship with each other or focus primarily on raising children? Yaakov placed his children before his wives when traveling, while Esav did the opposite, reflecting fundamentally different worldviews about marriage's purpose. The eternal perspective sees children as continuity beyond oneself, which should shape what qualities we seek in a spouse and how we structure family life.
This shiur explores a profound difference in worldview between Yaakov Avinu and Esav regarding the purpose of marriage and family life. The analysis begins with a Gemara (גמרא) in Bereishis Rabbah that contrasts how Yaakov prioritized his children before his wives when traveling, while Esav did the opposite, connecting this to the verse 'lev chacham li'ymino v'lev kesil li'smolo' - the wise heart to the right, the foolish heart to the left. The speaker explains that the right side represents eternality (or chayim - eternal life) while the left represents the temporal world (osher v'kavod - wealth and honor of this world). This connects to brain hemisphere research where creativity (associated with eternity and forward-thinking) is on the right, while analytical processing of existing reality is on the left. Yaakov's approach embodies the eternal perspective where children represent continuity beyond oneself, while Esav focuses on immediate gratification and temporal concerns.
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