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How did Yitzchok find comfort after Sarah's death through marriage to Rivka? The key is understanding that the Hebrew word "vayinachem" means both "comfort" and "change of direction." True consolation comes not from dwelling on loss, but from shifting focus outward—from self-absorption to giving to others. This principle applies to all depression and mourning.
Rabbi Zweig explores the Torah (תורה)'s account of how Yitzchok was comforted after his mother Sarah's death through his marriage to Rivka. The pasuk states: "Vayeviyeha Yitzchok haohelah Sarah imo, vayikach es Rivka vatehi lo le'ishah, vaye'ehaveha. Vayinachem Yitzchok acharei imo" - Yitzchok brought Rivka into Sarah's tent, took her as a wife, loved her, and was comforted after his mother. The question is: how exactly does marriage provide comfort for the loss of a parent? The Ba'al HaTurim suggests that the word "vayinachem" appears twice in Torah, the second time regarding Rivka's abundant kindness, indicating that Yitzchok was comforted because his wife was exceptionally giving, which restored his sense of self-worth. However, Rabbi Zweig proposes a deeper understanding based on the dual meaning of the Hebrew root "nachem."
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