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What does "lo yachol dabro l'shalom" mean—that Yosef's brothers avoided him or actively denigrated him? The shiur contrasts Avshalom's silence toward Amnon (criticized as "ma d'libei b'libei") with the brothers' stance toward Yosef. Rabbi Zweig argues that shalom means wholeness and connection, not mere political correctness, and explores whether avoidance or open confrontation is appropriate when dealing with perceived wickedness.
The shiur opens with an analysis of the Midrash contrasting two biblical cases of brotherly tension: Avshalom's response to Amnon after he violated Tamar, and Yosef's brothers' response to Yosef. The Gemara (גמרא) criticizes Avshalom for keeping his hatred hidden ("ma d'libei b'libei"—what was in his heart remained in his heart), while praising Yosef's brothers for "ma d'libam b'piyam"—what was in their hearts was expressed in their mouths. Yet this seems paradoxical: if the brothers' hatred of Yosef was itself a genusa (deficiency), why praise them for expressing it? Rabbi Zweig develops a fundamental distinction in the concept of shalom. Shalom does not merely mean absence of conflict or political correctness; it means shlaymus—wholeness, completion, being moshlem (integrated) with another person. True shalom creates a bond where two people complete each other. Avshalom's approach was to maintain surface civility with Amnon—not speaking good or bad—thereby creating a façade of shalom while harboring hatred within. The Midrash's criticism is that this false shalom is itself an avlah (injustice). With a rasha like Amnon, who violated and discarded his sister, there should be no shalom at all. "Ain shalom l'resha'im"—there can be no wholeness or completion with wickedness. To pretend otherwise through polite avoidance is to compromise truth.
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Bereishis 37:4, Shmuel II 13:22
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