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Why does Yosef warn his brothers "al tirgzu baderech" — don't become agitated on the way? Rashi (רש"י) says don't discuss halacha (הלכה), yet Torah (תורה) learning on journeys is obligatory. The shiur reveals that when underlying hostility exists between people, Torah argument becomes a weapon to mask personal resentment. The litmus test for arguing "l'shem shamayim": Do you actually like the person? If not, any "issue-based" dispute is really just personality conflict dressed in religious language.
Rabbi Zweig opens with Yosef's cryptic instruction to his brothers as they prepare to return to Canaan: "Al tirgzu baderech" — do not become agitated on the way. Rashi (רש"י) explains this means they should not get involved in matters of halacha (הלכה) during their journey. This raises several difficulties: First, why would discussing Torah (תורה) make them agitated? Second, why didn't Yaakov give them the same instruction when they traveled down to Egypt? Third, the Midrash says the opposite — they should learn on the way, which aligns with the Torah obligation of "b'lechtecha baderech" to study even while traveling. The resolution begins with analyzing a seemingly impossible Mishna in Pirkei Avos: "Every dispute that is for the sake of heaven (l'shem shamayim) will endure, but a dispute not for the sake of heaven will not endure." The problem is that everyone always convinces themselves their motives are pure and their arguments are "for the sake of heaven." A person getting divorced says it's better for the children; someone staying married says the same. People rationalize their jealousy, their resentment, their personal agendas. If we cannot honestly assess our own motivations, how can the Mishna be giving us practical guidance? What use is a law we cannot apply?
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Bereishis 45:24 (Parshas Vayigash)
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