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Why does the Torah (תורה) emphasize that Rivka was the daughter of Betuel the Aramean, sister of Lavan the Aramean, from Paddan-Aram—facts already known? The word "Arami" (Aramean) indicates mastery of understanding others' perspectives—a skill her wicked relatives used to manipulate, but which Rivka transformed into the essence of chesed (חסד). This Aramean ability to enter another's viewpoint is why the Talmud (תלמוד) is written in Aramaic and why true Torah learning requires listening, not just speaking.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a puzzle in Parshas Toldos. Bereishis 25:20 describes Yitzchok's marriage to Rivka with seemingly redundant detail: she was the daughter of Betuel the Aramean, sister of Lavan the Aramean, from Paddan-Aram (the region of Aram Naharaim and Aram Tzova—modern Iraq and Syria). Yet the Torah (תורה) already established all these facts in the previous parsha when Eliezer met Rivka at the well. Rashi (רש"י) explains this repetition comes to praise Rivka: despite being the daughter of a wicked person (Betuel), the sister of a wicked person (Lavan), and from a place of wicked people, "she did not learn from their deeds." But Rabbi Zweig challenges this reading. Given that Parshas Chayei Sarah already demonstrated Rivka's exceptional virtue through the servant's test—her kindness to strangers and animals, her virginity and purity, and the miraculous return of Sarah's blessings to her tent—what new information does this passage add? Any intelligent reader already knows Rivka overcame her environment. Why would the Torah need to state the obvious?
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Bereishis 25:20 (Parshas Toldos)
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