Rabbi Zweig explores how we truly own what God gives us by examining Pirkei Avos 3:7's teaching that everything belongs to God, revealing that the only way to eternalize our possessions and relationships is by using them to serve God.
This profound shiur examines the third Perek of Pirkei Avos, specifically the Mishnah (משנה) of Ben Zoma teaching 'give to God from His own, for you and yours are His,' supported by King David's statement during the Temple collection. Rabbi Zweig addresses the apparent contradiction in feeling that our possessions aren't truly ours while still living as owners who can enjoy wealth and defend our property. The key insight comes from analyzing the Akedah, where Abraham faced the ultimate test despite having already proven his devotion at Ur Kasdim a century earlier. The Ran explains that God couldn't command the sacrifice since He had promised Isaac would be Abraham's continuity - He could only request it. Rabbi Zweig offers a deeper understanding: Abraham realized that while God gave him Isaac, he would only have his son for a limited time in this world. However, by offering his feelings of fatherhood to serve God, Abraham could eternalize that relationship forever. This principle extends to all our possessions and abilities. Everything God gives us - money, talents, relationships - we truly own, but only for our lifetime unless we use them to serve God. When we utilize our resources for mitzvos, charity, hachnasas orchim, or other divine service, we eternalize them. A wealthy person should live better than a poor person, but should use that wealth to serve God more effectively. The shiur addresses tragedy by explaining that loss can be eternalized when used to strengthen our connection to God. While people might memorialize relationships through poetry or literature for decades or centuries, true eternalization only comes through divine service. King David's apparent contradiction - first calling the Temple donations a gift, then saying everything belongs to God - reflects this dual reality: we own what God gives us, but true eternal ownership comes only through using these gifts to serve Him. The profound message is that the only wealth we truly take with us after death is what we used to serve God and connect to Him, for only what is connected to the eternal God achieves true eternity.
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Pirkei Avos 3:7
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