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Why does the Torah (תורה) judge a wayward son more harshly than Yishmael, who committed far worse crimes? The shiur argues that a boy who eats cheap, half-cooked food in the street reveals catastrophic low self-esteem that makes him irreversible, while a child with healthy ego (even if criminal) can be redirected through proper parenting.
Rabbi Zweig examines the puzzling case of the ben sorer u'moreh (wayward son), whose punishment seems disproportionate when compared to Yishmael, who committed idolatry, adultery, and attempted murder yet was saved by Hashem (ה׳) and eventually did teshuvah. The fundamental question is: how can a boy who has done relatively little be considered irredeemable, while Yishmael, who did much worse, was judged favorably "basher hu sham" (where he was at that moment)? The shiur carefully examines the text, noting that the parents must physically grab their son and bring him publicly to the elders at the city gates—an act requiring extraordinary courage and commitment from parents who are essentially exposing their own failure. The Torah (תורה) specifies that both parents must speak with one voice, be physically whole, and have provided optimal parenting. This is not a case of parental neglect; these are exceptional parents dealing with an intractable problem.
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Ki Seitzei 21:18-21
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