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Why does the Torah (תורה) consistently describe only the husband loving his wife, never the reverse? The shiur develops a yesod about "space" (personal domain) to explain that marriage itself represents a woman allowing someone into her space—the ultimate testament of love—while a man must actively demonstrate love to ensure his entry isn't conquest. This framework also explains why Rochel's giving of the simanim is called tznius (minimizing one's space) and why Sarah was "einah tzara b'orchim" (guests narrow her domain).
Rabbi Zweig opens with a compelling textual question: Why does the Torah (תורה) consistently describe marriage as "the man loved the woman" (Yaakov loved Rochel, Yitzchok loved Rivka) rather than "they loved each other"? This pattern appears unnatural, as we would expect mutual love to be acknowledged. The shiur will demonstrate that this linguistic asymmetry reveals a profound psychological and relational truth about marriage. A second question emerges from Parshas Vayeitzei: Why does the Gemara (גמרא) in Megillah 13b characterize Rochel's giving of the simanim (secret signs) to Leah as an act of tznius (modesty) rather than chesed (חסד) (kindness)? Rochel sacrificed her marriage night and allowed her sister to marry Yaakov first to spare Leah humiliation—this seems like the paradigm of kindness, not modesty. The shiur will show these questions are deeply connected.
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