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How could Leah marry Yaakov without observing the required seven clean days, since the substitution happened suddenly? The shiur develops a yesod that dam chimud applies only when the man desires *this specific woman* for marriage, not when intimacy is for his sake alone. This explains both Leah's case and Tamar's union with Yehuda.
The shiur addresses a halachic difficulty in Parshas Vayeitzei: how could Leah marry Yaakov on the night of the wedding without sitting zayin nikiyim (seven clean days)? The Gemara (גמרא) indicates that neither Rochel nor Leah knew about the substitution until the wedding night itself. According to halacha (הלכה), a woman must observe zayin nikiyim before marriage due to the possibility of dam chimud. Moreover, even if a wedding date is moved up by just a few weeks from an originally planned date twelve months out, she must sit zayin nikiyim again from the new date. Since Leah thought she would not be marrying Yaakov, and the "marriage date" for her effectively moved up suddenly, she should have been required to observe zayin nikiyim before consummating the marriage. Yet the Torah (תורה) records that she became pregnant that very night. Rabbi Zweig notes a parallel question posed by the Taz in Yoreh Deah (192): how was Tamar permitted to live with Yehuda? She did not know until that moment that he would agree to be with her, and therefore she should have required zayin nikiyim before intimacy could occur.
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Parshas Vayeitzei (Bereishis 29)
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