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Why does the Torah (תורה) instruct us to tell our children about the Exodus before telling us we will know Hashem (ה׳)? The shiur explains that only when we adopt a parental perspective can we understand that Hashem's "toying" with the Egyptians was not merely justice, but a personal expression of care—validation that we are His children. This yesod extends to marriage: the deepest gift isn't affection, but the underlying validation each spouse gives the other.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a textual difficulty in Parshas Bo (Shemos 10:1-2). Before the eighth plague, Hashem (ה׳) tells Moshe: "Tell your children and grandchildren what I did to Egypt... and you will know that I am Hashem." The order is puzzling—shouldn't the verse first say "you will know I am Hashem" and then instruct you to tell your children? One doesn't transmit a message one doesn't yet understand oneself. The shiur proposes that the Torah (תורה) is teaching us a fundamental psychological and spiritual truth: some perspectives are impossible to grasp from the position of a child. A four-year-old cannot understand why parents enforce bedtime; a young adult cannot fully appreciate why parents insist on financial independence. Only when you yourself become a parent do you retroactively understand what your own parents were doing. The Torah is saying: switch into parenting mode—give over the message to your children—and in that very act, you will be able to relate to Hashem as a parent relates to a child, and then you will understand what He did for us.
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Shemos 10:1-2
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