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Why does Yaakov call Esav "adoni" (my master) even when speaking to angels? The shiur develops the yesod that an ish emes must honor another person's perception of reality—especially when something once rightfully belonged to them. Yaakov refuses the brachos until Esav acknowledges they are legitimately his, establishing a Torah (תורה) principle about ownership, resentment, and even territorial disputes.
This shiur explores Parshas Vayishlach's opening narrative where Yaakov sends messengers to Esav, addressing profound questions about truth, ownership, and moral discomfort. Rabbi Zweig begins by noting textual difficulties: Why does Yaakov go out of his way to travel toward Esav in Seir when his destination is Hebron? Why does he send angels when angels could simply overpower Esav (as Rashi (רש"י) later describes)? Most puzzling: why does Yaakov instruct the angels using the phrase "adoni l'Esav" (my master, Esav) when this is not part of the message they must deliver to Esav himself? The core insight emerges from the phrase "ko somru adoni l'Esav." This is Yaakov speaking to the angels about how he perceives Esav, not tactical language for Esav's benefit. Yaakov genuinely views Esav as "adoni" because the bechorah (birthright) originally belonged to Esav. Though Yaakov purchased it and received Yitzchok's blessings, Esav has never accepted this transfer as legitimate. In Esav's mind, he remains the bechor, and therefore the brachos—which were meant for the bechor—rightfully belong to him. Yaakov, as an ish emes, must live according to Esav's perception of reality, not merely his own knowledge of what occurred.
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Bereishis 32:4-6 (Parshas Vayishlach)
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