The Three Destructive Traits: Bad Eye, Evil Inclination, and Baseless Hatred

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This shiur provides a deep psychological and spiritual analysis of a pivotal Mishnah (משנה) in Pirkei Avos where Rabbi Yehoshua, one of the five students of Rabban Yochanan ben Zakai, identifies three destructive character traits: ayin hara (bad eye), yetzer hara (evil inclination), and sinas habriyos (hatred of people). These traits, he teaches, 'remove a person from the world.' Rabbi Zweig begins by examining the Rambam (רמב"ם)'s interpretation, which understands these traits as causing severe depression (marah sh'chorah - black bile/melancholy) that can literally lead to death. The Vilna Gaon's approach connects these three traits to the wicked prophet Bilaam, who embodied their negative opposites to Avraham Avinu's positive qualities. Through careful textual analysis, Rabbi Zweig defines each trait: Ayin hara (bad eye) is illustrated through the Midrash about someone who refuses to observe Shemitah - not because he needs the income (since God provides triple crops in the sixth year), but because it bothers him that poor people benefit from his field. This represents being troubled by others' benefit even when it costs oneself nothing. Sinas habriyos (hatred of people) is explained as sinas chinam (baseless hatred) - not hatred without any reason, but hatred based solely on someone else's existence, which threatens one's sense of uniqueness and diminishes one's relative position. Yetzer hara is exemplified by Bilaam's relationship with his donkey, representing the desire for pleasure without reciprocal responsibility or relationship. The unifying thread connecting all three traits is total disconnection from community - the individual seeing themselves as a self-sustaining unit rather than part of a larger whole. Rabbi Zweig uses the concept of machatzis hashekel (half-shekel) from Parshas Shekalim to illustrate that individuals are incomplete by themselves; only as part of a community do we become whole. The Talmud (תלמוד)'s interpretation of Bilaam's name as either 'blo am' (without a nation) or 'bola am' (swallowed the nation) reflects this pathology - either total separation from others or total absorption of others into oneself. The shiur concludes with the story of Yehoshua ben Gamla, who revolutionized Torah (תורה) education by creating schools rather than relying solely on parental instruction, specifically to ensure orphans wouldn't be left behind. This illustrates that a community cannot survive if it abandons any of its members. The remedy for these destructive traits is recognizing our fundamental interconnectedness and viewing others' success as contributing to our own wellbeing rather than detracting from it. Rabbi Zweig emphasizes that the self-sustaining unit is the community, not the individual, and that true existence (tov/good) comes through connection and light, while separation leads to darkness and depression.