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Why were Er and Onan specifically punished for their sins related to procreation and yibum? The shiur develops that yibum requires total self-effacement—the second brother must negate his own identity to perpetuate his deceased brother's name. This test of giving others their "shem" (identity) rather than building one's own is the defining characteristic of Malchus, which is why Malchus Beis Dovid emerges specifically from acts of yibum—from both Yehuda's self-sacrifice with Tamar and Boaz with Ruth.
Rabbi Zweig explores the puzzling narrative at the beginning of Parshas Vayeishev (Bereishis 38), where Yehuda descends from his brothers, befriends an Adullamite named Chirah, and marries the daughter of a Canaanite named Shua. The Torah (תורה)'s unusual emphasis on naming patterns throughout this passage requires explanation—why does the Torah specify that Yehuda befriended "an Adullamite man whose name was Chirah" rather than simply "Chirah the Adullamite"? Similarly, why does the Torah identify Yehuda's wife only through her father's name and identity, without mentioning her own name? And why, when sending the security deposit through his friend, does the Torah refer to him as "the Adullamite" rather than using his name? The shiur then examines the deaths of Er and Onan. The Torah explicitly states that Hashem (ה׳) killed Er because "he was evil in the eyes of Hashem," and similarly killed Onan because he spilled his seed to avoid fulfilling yibum. Several difficulties emerge: Why does the Torah need to explicitly mention that "Hashem" killed them? Why does the Torah go into such detail about the intimate details of their relationships? Most fundamentally, why were these particular sins—Er's preventing his wife from becoming pregnant and Onan's refusal to fulfill yibum—the specific transgressions for which they lost their lives?
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Bereishis 38:1-30 (Parshas Vayeishev)
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