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Why is "do not covet" the most important of the Ten Commandments according to the Meiri and Rabbeinu Bachya, and how does it connect to honoring parents? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: coveting isn't about wanting an object—it's about dominating another person, placing oneself as the center of the universe. Honoring parents trains us to reject that egocentric mindset and embrace a theocentric worldview, which is the foundation of our relationship with Hashem (ה׳) at Sinai.
Rabbi Zweig opens with a textual question from Rashi (רש"י). Before Sinai, Moshe repeated to the Jewish people the social justice laws they had already received. Rashi (Shemos 24:3) states that at Marah (after the splitting of the sea), the Jews were given Shabbos (שבת), the red heifer, civil procedure laws, and the commandment to honor parents. Yet in Rashi's commentary on the Marah episode itself (Shemos 15:25), the mitzvah (מצוה) of honoring parents is conspicuously absent—Rashi lists only Shabbos, the red heifer, and civil laws. Later, in Devarim, Rashi confirms that honoring parents was indeed given at Marah ("as you were commanded"). Why does Rashi omit honoring parents at Marah itself, only to include it in two later contexts? The shiur then shifts to the Ten Commandments. The Meiri states in his introduction to the Talmud (תלמוד) that the most important of the Ten Commandments is honoring parents. The Kara Kemach and Rabbeinu Bachya offer a different principle: in any list of ten, the tenth item is the most important—making "lo sachmod" (do not covet) the paramount commandment. Both positions initially seem difficult: honoring parents carries no capital punishment, and coveting carries only a minor negative prohibition. How can either be more significant than belief in God, Shabbos, or the prohibitions against murder and idolatry?
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