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120 shiurim for Parshas Yisro
Why does the First Commandment use singular form when addressing the entire nation? The shiur develops a chakira between national and personal Torah obligations at Sinai. National acceptance created collective responsibility like a treaty, while personal acceptance (requested by the people themselves) created individual liability for actual performance of mitzvos.
Why does the Torah introduce Yisro with three distinct identities in one verse—Yisro, Kohen Midyan, and chosein Moshe? The shiur argues each identity corresponds to a different aspect of what he "heard": Yisro the convert heard about Kriyas Yam Suf (the omnipotence of Borei Olam), Kohen Midyan the political leader heard about malchus (sustenance and protection through the mon, water, and Amalek), and chosein Moshe heard "ki hotzi Hashem es Yisrael miMitzrayim" (the chesed and special relationship between Hashem and His nation). Each name reflects a different dimension of his relationship to Torah and Klal Yisrael.
Why does the Torah present two models of receiving Torah—Parshas Yisro's mediated acceptance through Moshe and Parshas Mishpatim's direct hearing? The shiur develops the principle that Torah must be both obligatory (Yisro) and palatable (Mishpatim). Rashi's metaphor of the "shulchan aruch"—a prepared table—reveals that mitzvos require not just clarity but ta'am, taste and understanding, creating internal connection (tocho k'varo) rather than mechanical performance.
When is pressure in Torah observance legitimate versus coercive? Building on the Baal HaTurim's reading of na'aseh v'nishma as 'we will do and it will be heard/resonate,' the shiur establishes that mitzvos align with our essential nature. The Rambam's principle of kofin oto applies only when someone truly wants to do right but lacks motivation - making educational approaches that reveal mitzvos' inherent value crucial before any pressure.
Why did Moshe change Yisro's judicial system from "great and small cases" to "difficult and small cases"? The shiur reveals that Jewish justice prioritizes restoring relationships over placing money correctly. A davar kasheh (difficult case) is one where restoring unity between litigants is complex—requiring judges who hate money because they don't need it to relieve stress.
Why does Shabbos require both zachor and shamor, while Yom Tov observance doesn't mandate the positive commandments? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: Shabbos has two dimensions—Friday night when we are the chasan making the kallah of Shabbos, and Shabbos day when we become the kallah receiving directly from Hashem. This dual relationship explains why shamor creates the obligation of zachor.
Why does Rashi explain 'beit chayim' as both professional trades and Torah learning in different places? The shiur resolves this apparent contradiction by showing that both interpretations reflect the same yesod: developing genuine expertise requires structured, goal-oriented learning. Torah study, like any profession, demands systematic curriculum and measurable accomplishments rather than casual attendance in the beit midrash.
Why does Yisro declare God's greatness specifically because of midah k'neged midah—measure-for-measure punishment? The shiur explores how a measured response, rather than total annihilation, proves God judges the Egyptians as His own citizens, not foreign enemies. This reveals He is not just Israel's God but the God of all nations, including Egypt.
Why did Hashem address the women ("Beis Yaakov") before the men at Sinai when they receive fewer mitzvos? The shiur develops the principle that Kabbalas HaTorah was fundamentally a marriage—an emotional relationship—not a legal contract. Women, who understand relationships better, were addressed first to establish that foundation before the contractual details.
Why does the Torah repeatedly call Yisro "Kohen Midian" when he lost that position 60 years earlier? The shiur argues that the eser makkos repudiated idolatry worldwide, vindicating Yisro's early stance and restoring his position. The dual title "Kohen Midian" and "chosain Moshe" reflects two perspectives: international relations and family benefit, shaping how Yisro viewed events and advised Moshe on community responsibility.
Why does the father at a bar mitzvah declare "I am no longer responsible for my child's sins," when the Torah's eagle metaphor teaches that the parent should absorb the blow instead of the child? The shiur develops a crucial distinction: a parent must shield a child from third-party attacks but must never insulate a child from the consequences of his own immoral choices, as doing so teaches that immoral behavior has no consequences.
Why does Hashem instruct Moshe to deliver the message first to the women, then to the men? The shiur develops the yesod that Kabbalas HaTorah is fundamentally a marriage between Hashem and Klal Yisroel. Women, as natural mekablos, already embody the kallah role; men must transform themselves from zachar to mekabel through avdus and commitment—a metamorphosis that began in Mitzrayim and culminated at Har Sinai.
Why does the Torah tell the women first at Har Sinai? The shiur develops a revolutionary yesod: Mitzrayim transformed Jewish men from masters (zachar) into receivers (mekabel/kallah). Women were already prepared; men needed slavery and commitment to transition into being Hashem's bride. This reframes Kriyas Yam Suf, the difference between Torah Shebichsav and Torah Sheba'al Peh, and why we initially accepted only the written Torah without coercion.
Why does the Torah repeatedly call Yisro "Kohen Midian" and "chosein Moshe"? The shiur unpacks these titles as two distinct perspectives: Yisro as political leader sees the international message of Exodus—that the God of the world is incorporeal—while as Moshe's father-in-law, he sees the personal benefit to the Jewish people. This dual vision explains why Yisro was reinstated as Kohen Midian after Aseres Makos.
Why does Rashi cite two separate pesukim to teach that no one was blind at Har Sinai? The shiur distinguishes between physical blemish (missing an eye) and functional impairment (inability to see). Hashem performed two distinct miracles: restoring physical completeness ("le'einei kol ha'am") and restoring all functions of sight, hearing, and speech ("ro'im es hakolos").
Why does the Torah repeatedly call Yisro "Kohen Midian" when he was excommunicated from that position sixty years earlier? The shiur explores how the Ten Plagues validated Yisro's monotheistic stance globally, leading to his reinstatement. Each of Yisro's titles represents a different perspective on the Exodus: political (Kohen Midian), familial (Chosein Moshe), and philosophical (Yisro).
Why is "do not covet" the most important of the Ten Commandments according to the Meiri and Rabbeinu Bachya, and how does it connect to honoring parents? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: coveting isn't about wanting an object—it's about dominating another person, placing oneself as the center of the universe. Honoring parents trains us to reject that egocentric mindset and embrace a theocentric worldview, which is the foundation of our relationship with Hashem at Sinai.
What does "Anochi Hashem Elokecha" mean, and why say "Anochi" instead of "Ani"? The shiur explores how Rashi reads "Anochi" as "It is I"—a divine self-revelation, not merely a statement of fact. This transforms the mitzvah of emunah from a philosophical truth (Rambam) into knowing that God desires a relationship with us, distinguishing multiple Rishonic approaches to the first commandment.
Why does the Torah phrase the prohibition against idolatry in ways that seem to acknowledge other gods exist? The shiur contrasts Rashi's linguistic solution (gods "others made") with Onkelos's theological insight: when Yisro recognizes God is "greater than all the gods," he means there are no other gods at all—even Egypt's enemies belong to the one God. This explains why God's punishment was a "measured response."
Why did Hashem impose strict boundaries at Har Sinai when Torah seems limitless? The shiur develops the yesod that Kabbalas HaTorah is fundamentally about tzimtzum—self-limitation and personal service—not merely accepting rules. Yisro's conversion and his serving the Jewish people models this transformation from self-focused chesed to selfless devotion, which is the essence of our relationship with Hashem.
What is the mitzvah of belief in God—philosophical knowledge or relationship? The Rambam defines emunah as understanding God's absolute existence, while the Smag focuses on "Anochi Hashem Elokecha asher hotzeisicha mei'eretz Mitzrayim." God's anthropomorphic appearances at Yetzias Mitzrayim and Matan Torah teach that emunah means cultivating an emotional connection with a God we can relate to, not merely affirming His existence.
Why does the Torah repeat that Yisro is "Kohen Midian" when he already appeared with that title in Parshas Shemos? The shiur explains that "Kohen" when attached to a country name means political leader, not priest. This identifies Yisro's global perspective as a statesman concerned with international events—distinct from his personal perspective as Moshe's father-in-law.
Why does the Torah emphasize Yisro as "chosen Moshe" (father-in-law) repeatedly when conversion severs family ties? The shiur develops the idea that relationships built on commitment—not blood—survive conversion and define true closeness. Yisro, who built Moshe up from nothing, models the commitment that underlies kabbalas haTorah itself: we become "one" with Hashem not through law acceptance but through devoted relationship.
Why does the Torah repeatedly call Yisro "choson Moshe" (six times) when conversion severs family ties and gerus for status is invalid? The shiur analyzes the triple identification—name, title, and relationship—in the opening pasuk, showing that "Kohen Midian" explains why he heard, "Yisro" signals events leading to conversion, and "choson Moshe" raises a fundamental question about the legitimacy of his motives.
Why did Hashem say all Ten Commandments simultaneously—beyond human capacity to speak or comprehend? This reveals that Torah is an indivisible reflection of Hashem's oneness, just as creation itself occurred instantaneously. Kabbalas HaTorah means accepting responsibility not just for personal mitzvah observance but for maintaining the entire world as a reflection of the Divine—natural disasters, ecology, and the moral fabric of all humanity rest on Jewish observance.
Why does Rashi call idols "acherim" - estranged gods who never respond? The shiur contrasts idolatry's abuse - total self-negation for a deity who ignores you - with Torah's vision: serving God purely out of love, yet knowing He appreciates and reciprocates. "L'sofa kavod lavo" means reward comes not as motivation, but as proof the relationship isn't abusive.
Why does the Gemara use "yelechu bah" (walking) to describe bikkur cholim? The shiur develops a yesod that unlike other mitzvos where travel is mere preparation, in bikkur cholim the effort itself is the mitzvah. When a sick person sees how much you invested to visit, that gives him the chashivus and emotional strength to fight his illness.
Why does the Torah list all the miracles Yisro heard, then conclude that Yetzias Mitzrayim was "the greatest of all"? The shiur develops a fundamental insight into geirus: conversion isn't only about accepting mitzvos or drawing close to Hashem—it's fundamentally about joining the Jewish people. From Yetzias Mitzrayim onward, a ger must want to share even in the suffering of the nation.
Why does the Torah call Moshe's father-in-law "Yisro" before his conversion, when that was his post-conversion name? The shiur argues that witnessing Moshe's meticulous honesty as a shepherd planted the first seeds of Yisro's journey to Judaism. Jewish integrity—not just miracles—can inspire genuine appreciation and teshuvah.
Why did God reveal Himself as a warrior at the Red Sea and as a wise elder at Sinai? Rashi explains that this marks the first time God made a personal, anthropomorphic appearance—not just exercising attributes from afar. The dual revelation teaches that God desires an intimate relationship with the Jewish people, showing Himself in forms we can identify with to create a deep personal connection.
Why does Rashi describe the Jewish people at Sinai as "one man with one heart," while the Egyptians pursuing them are described as "one heart as one man"? Rabbi Zweig distinguishes two types of unity: external unity toward a common goal versus internal unity where people become one entity. The shiur explores how the 210 years in Egypt forged the Jews into one people capable of living together, and how healthy families preserve this foundation of Torah.
Were the Jews slaves to the Egyptians or subjects of Pharaoh? The distinction determines whether they were entitled to wages—and explains why Hashem introduces Himself at Sinai not as Creator who owns us completely, but as the One who freed us to become His subjects. This shift from ownership to covenant is the ultimate chesed, transforming us from chattel into people with rights and entitlement to reward.
Why does Yonasan ben Uziel call Yisro "onos Midyan" (donkey of Midyan), seemingly to denigrate him? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction between gentile and Jewish kingship—gentiles receive power ("shenasan mikvodo lebasar v'dam"), while Jewish kings become vessels of Hashem's glory through total bittul ("shechalak mikvodo l'yerei'av"). Yisro's "donkey" title is actually praise: like Moshe riding a donkey, it shows leadership rooted in complete subservience to the Ribbono Shel Olam.
Why does the Torah emphasize that Yisro was "Kohen Midyan" when reporting what he heard? Rashi's principle emerges: ordinary citizens only notice events that affect them directly, but leaders think beyond personal interest to the international arena. This same yesod explains why Moshe alone focused on Yosef's bones while everyone else collected silver and gold—a true leader prioritizes the nation's needs over his own mitzvos.
Why did Hashem speak all ten commandments simultaneously before repeating them individually? The shiur develops a yesod that the miracle teaches Torah's essential unity—all mitzvos are one indivisible whole. When Hashem gave the dibros together, He wasn't commanding but revealing Himself; only the second delivery, one by one, constituted tzivui.
Why does the Torah repeat that Yisro was "kohen Midyan" when we already know this from Parshas Shemos? Rabbi Zweig explains that "kohen" with a place-name means political leader, not priest. Drawing on Targum Yonasan's translation of "kohen" as "chamran" (donkey), the shiur develops a fundamental distinction: non-Jewish kings receive honor and power, but Jewish leaders—and Yisro uniquely among gentile leaders—serve as "donkeys," totally subservient to their people.
Why did Hashem speak all Ten Commandments simultaneously at Sinai if no one could understand them? The shiur presents a yesod that Ma'amad Har Sinai was fundamentally about hearing Hashem's voice—an act of connection and spiritual marriage—not about receiving laws. This explains why the nations were offered written law while only Klal Yisrael experienced the kol itself, which recreated and healed them.
Why did Yisro insist Moshe come out to greet him? The shiur distinguishes between unhealthy honor-seeking and the legitimate need for respect to fulfill one's role. A parent, grandparent, or leader must insist on the respect their position requires—not for ego, but to function effectively. The contrast between idolatry (which ignores worshipers) and serving Hashem (סוף הכבוד לבוא—ultimate respect) teaches that authentic relationships never demand we forfeit self-respect.
Why did Yisro's suggestion to establish a judicial system merit adding a section to the Torah—yet Moshe criticized the people for accepting it? The shiur reveals that judges aren't appointed just to resolve disputes; they exist to give people relationships with wise individuals, which is the only real path to growth. Yisro understood that connection to role models, not philosophical study alone, transforms character.
How can God appear as a warrior at the Red Sea and as a teacher at Sinai? A human warrior cannot effectively teach, since conquest and care for students are incompatible. The shiur explains that God's actions are not measures of His essence, but expressions of a single will to bestow good—unlike humans, whose identities are defined by their characteristics.
Why did Hashem speak the Aseres Hadibros simultaneously when no one could understand? Maamad Har Sinai was primarily about hearing Hashem's voice—establishing a relationship—not receiving commandments. The first utterance created a connection like creation itself; only afterward did Hashem repeat the dibros to convey specific mitzvos.
What does it mean that the din itself requires going lifnim mishuras hadin—beyond the letter of the law? The shiur develops the principle that for an adam gadol, especially a ben Torah, lifnim mishuras hadin is not optional piety but a halachic obligation: the responsibility to become a role model whose behavior inspires others to emulate him. This applies to speech, dress, middos, and every aspect of conduct.
Why does "Lo Sachmod" (do not covet) rank as the most serious of the Ten Commandments? The shiur reframes coveting not as lust but as domination—the power-driven need to control what belongs to others. Honoring parents (the Fifth Commandment) is the Torah's antidote: children who learn their proper place at home will not grow into bullies who dominate peers.
Why does Rashi emphasize that Jews camped at Sinai 'as one man with one heart' rather than highlighting their later unified acceptance of Torah? Jewish unity isn't ideological agreement but practical commitment to live together and care for each other as family. This explains why conversion laws focus on joining the Jewish people rather than just accepting mitzvos, and why increased religious observance today often fails without first rebuilding genuine connection between Jews.
Why does the Torah describe the Jewish people at Sinai as camping in the singular—"vayichan"—rather than the plural? Rashi explains: "ki ish echad b'leiv echad," as one man with one heart. The shiur develops the foundational principle that Jewish unity isn't defined by shared commitment to God or Torah values, but by our commitment to each other—our ability to live together, give each other space, and feel genuinely connected as one family.
When did Yetzias Mitzrayim actually end? The shiur explores why the Torah includes Kriyas Yam Suf and Milchemes Amalek as part of leaving Egypt, even though they occurred after the Exodus. Two possibilities emerge: either we remained in "leaving mode" until emotionally detached from Egypt (possibly until the Meraglim), or until the world feared us and we became rooted in Eretz Yisrael—suggesting Moshe's forty-year mission was uprooting Egypt from us, not yet planting us in Israel.
Why did Hashem cure everyone at Sinai and perform so many miracles with the manna? The shiur develops a yesod that Torah was given to a people with perfect health and wealth to teach that material comfort is not life's meaning — Torah's goal is to elevate us into genuine purpose, not merely to solve our problems or fill our emptiness.
Why did Hashem perform so many miracles at Har Sinai — speaking all Ten Commandments simultaneously, then repeating them sequentially, curing everyone's ailments? The shiur explains that Kabbalas HaTorah was not merely receiving a code of 613 mitzvos, but becoming linked to the infinite creative force of Hashem Himself, transcending time and space. This understanding transforms our appreciation of what it means to be a Yid.
Why does the Torah describe Israel camping at Sinai in singular form while using plural verbs for accepting the mitzvos? The key insight reveals that true Jewish unity isn't achieved through shared religious fervor, but through the mundane ability to live peacefully as neighbors without territorial or personal conflicts. This everyday unity, focused outward rather than on personal concerns, was the essential foundation that merited receiving the Torah.
Why did Yisro praise Hashem's greatness specifically for measure-for-measure punishment? The shiur explores how Yisro's status as a convert gave him a dual perspective—both Jewish joy at salvation and universal awareness of Egyptian suffering. This enabled him to perceive God's restraint: a measured rescue mission rather than total destruction, revealing divine greatness the Jewish people themselves missed.
Why did Yisro receive great honor for suggesting an obvious judicial hierarchy, yet Moshe later criticized the people for accepting it? The shiur reveals that Yisro understood the Torah system's deeper purpose: creating connections with Torah leaders, not just resolving disputes efficiently. However, the generation should have recognized Moshe's unique greatness and prioritized maintaining their irreplaceable direct relationship with him.
Why did Moshe need Yisro to devise a judicial hierarchy—wasn't that obvious? The shiur reveals that Yisro understood the revolutionary idea that the Jewish judicial system exists not to solve disputes efficiently, but to create opportunities for people to connect with Torah leaders and become God-like through that relationship. Moshe later criticized the nation for accepting this system, since they should have insisted on connecting specifically to him.
Why did Yisro host a feast for the elders while Moshe served as waiter? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: when people gather to learn from scholars, Hashem infuses those scholars with greater wisdom, creating a revelation of the Divine Presence. This principle extends to all relationships—marriage, friendship, community—which are not merely social bonds but vehicles for bringing godliness into the world.
Why does the first commandment identify Hashem as "the one who took you out of Egypt" rather than "creator of the universe"? The shiur develops the yesod that Sinai marked an emancipation: Hashem relinquished ownership over us and entered an arm's-length covenant. This allowed us to earn our keep, justify our existence through mitzvos, and become givers rather than takers—transforming both our relationship with Hashem and our interpersonal bonds.
Why was the Torah offered to all nations yet only given to the Jews? The shiur distinguishes between a business relationship (613 mitzvos with rewards) versus a love relationship (the Sinai experience of connection). The nations were offered mitzvos; only the Jews, through the merit of the Avos, received the intimate bond symbolized by "asher bachar banu," which demands pressure, growth, and yisurim shel ahavah.
Why was Yisro most impressed by measure-for-measure justice rather than God's overwhelming miracles? A measured response from an omnipotent being proves the punishment serves the recipient's growth, not the punisher's satisfaction. This teaches us to respond to others' intentions with restraint and wisdom, focusing on what they need to learn rather than venting our hurt.
Why does the Torah require judges to hate money (sonei betza), and why must judges push compromise even after knowing who's legally right? The shiur develops the yesod that the ultimate goal of the judicial system is not to vindicate rights but to ensure people walk out as friends. This philosophy reframes qualities like wisdom—not for reaching correct verdicts, but for helping people get along.
Why does Yisro say "Now I know Hashem is greater than all gods" specifically because the Egyptians drowned in water—measure for measure—rather than from the overwhelming miracles themselves? The shiur develops the principle that measured responses demonstrate God's focus is entirely on us, not His power. This model of restraint and intentionality applies directly to parenting, marriage, and all interpersonal relationships.
Why does the Torah describe Jewish unity at Sinai as "k'ish echad b'lev echad" but Egyptian unity as "b'lev echad k'ish echad"? The Avnei Nezer's approach through Ruth's conversion shows that kabbalas haTorah required interpersonal commitment first, then shared ideals. This k'ish echad foundation - living together harmoniously without friction - remains essential for Jewish unity today.
Why does Rashi describe the Jewish people at Sinai as "k'ish echad b'lev echad" while the Egyptians pursuing them are described "b'lev echad k'ish echad"? The shiur argues that unity among Jews begins with commitment to each other—not shared ideology—and that this interpersonal harmony (vayichan sham Yisrael) was the prerequisite for receiving the Torah. Rus and the Rashi in Yevamos both teach that conversion means joining the Jewish people first, not abstract religion.
Why do we stand for the Ten Commandments and Az Yashir when the Rambam opposes treating any Torah portions as more sacred? The shiur explains that these two moments uniquely commemorate when God appeared anthropomorphically, establishing our personal relationship with Him. We stand from excitement at remembering this divine intimacy, not because these sections are holier.
Why does God identify Himself at Sinai as 'the God who took you out of Egypt' rather than as Creator of the world? The shiur reveals that this establishes a king-subject covenant rather than an owner-property relationship. This transforms mitzvos from divine impositions into a character development system designed for our benefit - we are God's agenda.
Why does God introduce Himself at Sinai as "the God who took you out of Egypt" rather than "the God who created heaven and earth"? The shiur presents a fundamental yesod: God is establishing a king-subject covenant, not an owner-slave relationship. This means mitzvos exist to perfect us, not to serve God's needs—making na'aseh v'nishma the higher level of commitment.
Why does the parsha of Yisro precede Matan Torah despite occurring chronologically afterward? The shiur develops a yesod that kabbalas haTorah requires k'ish echad b'lev echad—not unity derived from a shared King, but direct connection to each Jew. Yisro's feast models the mitzvah of being misdabek b'talmidei chachamim, teaching that we must first connect to one another before we can connect to Hashem.
Why does the Torah develop an intricate legal system yet require judges to seek compromise? The shiur explores Yisro's criteria for judges—especially "sonei betza" (hating money)—to reveal that the Torah's judicial goal isn't vindicating rights but fostering peace. Real wisdom means using intelligence to help others and get along, not merely to be right.
Why did Yisro have seven different names? The shiur explores how each name—Yeser, Putiel, Reuel, Yisro, Chovev, Chever, and Keni—represents a distinct stage in his spiritual progression. Yeser reflects his drive for growth and "adding on" (yoser), which paradoxically led him first through comprehensive Avodah Zarah before his ultimate transformation through geirut to Yisro.
Can the Torah legislate feelings? The prohibition against coveting seems to demand control over desire itself, not just action. Rabbi Zweig develops a fundamental yesod: emotions flow from perspective, not the reverse. A person who recognizes he lives in God's world—not his own—loses the desire to covet, just as one doesn't take what belongs to another in someone else's home. The pairing of "honor your parents" with "don't covet" reveals that kibud av va'em is the laboratory for learning we are not the center of the universe.
Why did God hold Mount Sinai over the Jews like a barrel when they had already said Na'aseh V'Nishma? The shiur develops that humans naturally resist being commanded—not the acts themselves, but losing control. True Divine relationship requires surrendering our need for choice, which the mountain symbolized beyond their initial commitment.
Why does the First Commandment open with "I am Hashem Who took you out of Egypt" rather than the more comprehensive "Creator of heaven and earth"? Rabbi Zweig explores the paradox of kafa aleihem har k'gigis—Hashem coercing Israel after they already said "na'aseh v'nishma." The answer reveals that the essence of accepting Torah is choosing to surrender one's right to choose, transforming from independent agents into complete servants of God.
Why does the Torah give two distinct sources for bikur cholim — one in Parshas Yisro and one in the story of Korach? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod that there are two types of illness requiring different approaches: visiting someone who may recover requires building their self-esteem and desire to fight, while visiting the terminally ill requires helping them achieve shalom and a sense that their affairs are in order.
Why did Hashem cure all the sick, blind, deaf, and lame before Matan Torah? The Rambam teaches that miracles require purpose. This shiur argues that the mass healing demonstrated that Torah is not meant for the downtrodden seeking comfort, but for healthy people who can fully channel their energies toward mitzvos and serve as proper examples to their communities.
Why does the Aramaic word for "accept" (Kabbalah) also mean "complain"? The shiur develops a profound insight: genuine acceptance only emerges from overcoming resistance. Without internal challenge, an idea merely passes through us—true commitment is born only when we wrestle with, resist, and ultimately decide to embrace a principle.
Why did Moshe name his firstborn Gershom "ki ger hayisi b'eretz nochriah" when he grew up as Egyptian royalty? The Targum Yonasan reveals that "nochriah" means "lo ladidi"—a land not owned—echoing the Bris Bein HaBesarim's definition of galus. Moshe was declaring that despite his princely status in Egypt, he was a ger because it wasn't his land, thus sharing the full Jewish exile experience.
Why does the Torah describe the Jewish people camping at Sinai first in plural ("vayachanu") then in singular ("vayichan")? The shiur develops the yesod that there were two types of unity: sociological survival (plural, because each person's agenda is self-preservation) and religious unity focused on serving Hashem (singular, because giving creates true oneness). This teshuvah for "rafu yedeihem b'divrei Torah" meant shifting from learning for personal fulfillment to learning as service of God.
Why does the first of the Ten Commandments identify God as the One who took us out of Egypt, rather than as Creator of the universe? The shiur develops the profound idea that the Egyptian slavery was not meant to be erased from our consciousness, but transformed. Every lesson learned about dedication and service to Pharaoh must be transferred forward to serving Hashem—turning our most bitter experience into the foundation of our greatness.
When should parents protect children versus let them face consequences? The contrast between eagle wings (carrying young on top) and dove wings (protection through mitzvos) teaches that parents should shield children from external threats beyond their control, but allow natural consequences when children make poor choices. This develops responsibility while maintaining appropriate protection.
Why does Rashi describe God protecting Israel "on eagle's wings" while the Gemara depicts protection through the "wings of a dove"? The shiur resolves this by distinguishing third-party attacks (where God absorbs the blow) from consequences of our own decisions (where only our merits protect us). This framework illuminates the father's bracha at bar mitzvah: teaching responsibility, not abandonment.
Why does the Torah describe God protecting us with eagle's wings, while the Gemara speaks of dove's wings? The Ramah's strange blessing at bar mitzvah—thanking God for freedom from a child's punishment—reveals when parents must shield children and when they must let consequences teach responsibility.
When Yisro brought Moshe's wife and children back to the Jewish camp, were they merely reuniting with their father—or did they require conversion? The shiur analyzes the awkward flow of the pesukim and concludes that Tzipora and her sons, absent from Maamad Har Sinai, needed some form of giyur distinct from ordinary converts. The discussion explores what it meant to be a descendant of Avrohom who missed Sinai, and whether Moshe's sons retained their status as his children after conversion.
Why does the Torah use singular language ("vayichan sham Yisrael") for the collective acceptance at Sinai, but plural language ("vayomru na'aseh v'nishmah") for the ultimate acceptance next week? The shiur develops that Kabbalas HaTorah involved two distinct commitments: first, the national responsibility to sustain the world through Torah observance (Parshas Yisro), which required complete unity; second, individual commitment to personal growth through dikdukei mitzvos (Parshas Mishpatim), where each person's path is unique.
Why did Yisro come when all nations heard the same news about Yetzias Mitzrayim? The shiur develops the principle of "shlach lachmecha al pnei hamayim" — investing in a "mayim," someone who preserves favors and maintains ongoing relationships. Yisro's invitation to Moshe wasn't repayment but investment, creating a living connection that ultimately brought him to join Klal Yisrael.
Why does God introduce Himself at Sinai as the God who took us out of Egypt rather than as Creator of heaven and earth? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction between two forms of divine kingship: the universal sovereignty that obligates the Seven Noahide Laws to preserve society, and the personal covenant established at Sinai where God commits to nurturing each individual Jew. Kabbalas HaTorah was not merely accepting more mitzvos but accepting an entirely new definition of malchus—one centered on the individual's growth rather than the state's survival.
Why must Kohanim use a ramp rather than steps to avoid exposing themselves before unfeeling stones? The shiur reveals that kavod isn't primarily what we owe others, but what we need for ourselves - to recognize our proper place in God's world rather than acting like everything belongs to us. This yesod explains how kibbud av v'em prevents the self-centeredness that leads to lo sachmod.
Why does the Torah present two seemingly contradictory accounts of Matan Torah—Yisro depicts fear and trembling, Mishpatim a celebration? The shiur develops that these represent two distinct modes of receiving the Torah: Yisro establishes unilateral obligation (employee-employer), while Mishpatim creates a covenant making Jews principals in creation with eternal rights and partnership with Hashem.
Why was Yisro's judicial system revolutionary when court hierarchies existed everywhere? The shiur distinguishes between absolute truth (divine justice) and relative truth (Torah justice adapted to worldly realities). Yisro's insight was that justice must serve its ultimate purpose - enabling harmonious society - even when this means accepting halachic determinations that differ from absolute truth.
Why did Moshe Rabbeinu need Yisro's advice on appointing judges when every society already had hierarchical court systems? The shiur explores Yisro's fundamental insight: absolute truth (Moshe's infallibility) isn't sufficient if it creates *navel tivo*—a system people can't live with. Justice must serve human reality, making even relative truth—rulings based on practical halachic principles rather than heavenly certainty—into absolute truth for this world.
Why does Rashi describe two separate acts of teshuvah as the Jews traveled from Rephidim to Sinai? The shiur distinguishes between personal teshuvah (correcting sins) and cosmic teshuvah (the soul's drive to grow closer to God). True spiritual elevation requires moving beyond individual perfection to unity with all of Klal Yisrael, recognizing that every Jew contains unique Divine sparks essential for collective growth.
Why does Rashi link leaving Rephidim with arriving at Sinai through teshuvah twice? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: teshuvah has two dimensions—rectifying personal sin and the innate drive to return to God that preceded creation. The second form requires connecting to every Jew, because each contains a chelek Elokah and offers spiritual growth beyond personal perfection.
Why does the Torah emphasize that Yisro "heard" rather than simply that he "came"? The shiur develops the idea that true hearing (shemiya) means allowing oneself to be emotionally affected, not merely acquiring information. Yisro heard about the splitting of the sea—an act of kindness—and let that message penetrate, while other nations blocked out what they heard.
Why does the first of the Ten Commandments identify God as the one who freed us from Egypt rather than as Creator of heaven and earth? Drawing on a fundamental dispute between Rashi, the Rambam, and the Ramban, the shiur argues that the formulation establishes our relationship to God as subjects to a king—who owes us reward—rather than as slaves to a master.
Why does Rashi connect honoring parents with not coveting in the Ten Commandments' structure? The shiur develops a revolutionary chiddush about kavod: respect laws primarily benefit the giver, not the receiver. Even showing respect to stones trains us to recognize our proper place in the universe rather than viewing ourselves as the center of creation.
Why must we ascend the Mizbeach by ramp rather than steps to avoid dishonoring stones that feel nothing? The shiur develops the principle that giving kavod is not only for the recipient's benefit but teaches us our place in the universe. Recognizing we are not the center of creation — whether by honoring stones, parents, or others — is essential for spiritual health and prevents violation of lo sachmod.
Why did Aharon object to Moshe bringing his family to Egypt during the slavery? Moshe believed he needed shared suffering to credibly offer hope of redemption, while Aharon saw the people as too deeply despairing to accept solidarity. The dispute reveals two approaches to maintaining hope when salvation seems impossible.
Why did Moshe want to bring his family to Egypt despite Aharon's objection that they already had enough suffering? The shiur develops that Moshe understood hope requires showing shared investment in the problem, while Aharon argued they had reached a point beyond hope where bringing more people would only magnify the tragedy. The resolution: true hope never depends on seeing a human solution—it flows from viewing reality through God's perspective, not our own.
Why does the Torah place Yisro's conversion immediately before Sinai? Converts possess a unique dual perspective, maintaining connection to both their original worldview and Jewish identity - allowing them to see events from multiple angles simultaneously. This explains why Mashiach must descend from Ruth the convert, as universal leadership requires sensitivity beyond purely Jewish concerns.
Why was Yisro rewarded for suggesting a judicial system that the Jews were later criticized for accepting? Yisro's true insight wasn't the practical suggestion but his philosophical understanding that God acts solely for Israel's benefit, not His own needs. This recognition—that Torah exists to serve us rather than fulfill God's requirements—became the proper foundation for accepting the Torah at Sinai.
What motivated God to create the world—His own need to be king, or His desire to give to humanity? Yisro and Amalek represent opposite philosophies: Amalek claims God has needs and therefore man has rights, while Yisro recognizes God acts purely for our benefit, making us recipients without inherent rights. Kabbalas HaTorah is predicated on Yisro's perspective—that God obligates Himself to us not because we earn it, but because His entire purpose in creation is to give us reality and a sense of rights.
Why did Hashem wait three months after the Exodus to give the Torah? The Midrash says He delayed until Klal Yisrael was physically and emotionally healed. The shiur argues that Torah is not a remedy for the downtrodden—it is our commitment to Hashem's kingship. Kabbalas HaTorah requires healthy people making a real act of "hamlacha," giving kavod to Hashem's malchus, not slaves serving an owner.
How did the Exodus fundamentally transform God's relationship with the Jewish people? Before Sinai, God related to humanity as universal Master, but the Exodus marked His shift to acting from the Jewish people's perspective rather than His own. Yisro's recognition of this transformation - that God now takes revenge on our behalf rather than merely enforcing cosmic justice - exemplifies the prerequisite for receiving Torah and accepting chukim.
What motivated Yisro to convert, and why does he experience both joy and pain at the splitting of the Red Sea? Through a Midrash on Parah Adumah and the names of Moshe's children, the shiur develops that Torah created a revolutionary shift: before Sinai, God related to the world as Master demanding service; after Torah, He becomes totally committed to the Jewish people, acting from their perspective. A convert uniquely embodies both relationships—explaining the dual mitzvah to love a ger.
What does Kabbalas HaTorah truly mean—a promise never to sin? The shiur argues that accepting the Torah means accepting total responsibility for our actions, not insulating ourselves from consequences. The Gemara's image of the eagle protecting its young from external threats—but not from their own failings—teaches that genuine love means letting people face accountability.
Why does the Torah date Matan Torah to "the third month from the Exodus" rather than simply naming Sivan? The shiur develops that "chodesh" means the moon's renewal itself, not just the calendar month. Arriving at Sinai on Rosh Chodesh—the third renewal since leaving Egypt—established within Klal Yisrael a chazakah for change and rebirth. Unlike the cyclical repetition of the solar year that governs the nations, the Jewish connection to the lunar calendar reflects our unique capacity not just to be affected by change, but to create newness itself—the very foundation for receiving Torah.
Why did Moshe need Yisro's advice to establish lower courts—wasn't this obvious? Before Yisro, Moshe judged as a king with the Shechinah speaking through him directly; people came "to seek God" through Moshe himself. Yisro's insight transformed the system: though no longer hearing divine speech directly, connecting to any talmid chacham becomes a connection to the Shechinah—making the hierarchy both practical and spiritually profound.
Why does the Gemara say Maamad Har Sinai gave us busha, while the Mishna says "lo baishon lomeid"—one who has busha cannot learn? The shiur resolves this by distinguishing between busha before Hashem—which puts us in touch with our true limitations—and false social embarrassment. True self-awareness born at Sinai removes the airs that block genuine learning.
Why were there physical boundaries at Har Sinai if Torah is limitless? The shiur distinguishes between typical nevuah (a soul experience) and Matan Torah, which involved physical divine presence that created kedushas makom. This physical dimension of Torah necessitated spatial restrictions and explains why Torah study engages the body, not just the soul.
Why did Har Sinai require physical boundaries—hagbalah—and what does this reveal about Matan Torah? Unlike prophecy, which is purely spiritual, Kabbalas HaTorah at Sinai was a physical presence of the Divine. The mountain became a Mishkan with distinct zones (kohanim, Aharon, Moshe), establishing that Torah is not merely a soul experience but engages the body with tangible kedushah.
Why does the Torah introduce Yisro with three distinct titles—Yisro, Kohen Midyan, and chosen Moshe—in the opening verse? Each title corresponds to a different aspect of what he heard: Yisro the convert heard the nisim of Hashem's omnipotence, Kohen Midyan the political leader heard about Hashem's malchus demonstrated through sustenance and protection, and chosen Moshe heard that Hashem took Yisrael out—the ultimate act of caring and connection.
Why does the Torah transition from Sinai's revelation to the detailed laws of Mishpatim? The shiur develops that Sinai represented acceptance through obedience, while Mishpatim introduces a deeper level requiring understanding and internalization. Rashi's metaphor of a prepared table reveals that mitzvos must be spiritually 'tasted' and internalized, not just mechanically performed, to create genuine dveikut with Hashem.
Why does the Torah call kidnapping "genevah" (theft) when it involves face-to-face taking, which should be "gezeilah" (robbery)? The shiur develops a fundamental chakira: genevah targets property for gain, while gezeilah targets the person to humiliate. Kidnapping seeks financial benefit through selling the victim, making it genevah—ultimately, stealing Hashem's property (a Jew), which parallels swearing falsely (stealing Hashem's name).
Why does the Torah present two seemingly contradictory accounts of the Sinai revelation, one in Parshas Yisro and one in Parshas Mishpatim? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction: Yisro describes the original plan where Bnei Yisrael would hear through Moshe, while Mishpatim records what happened after they demanded "ritzoneinu liros es malkeinu"—to hear directly from Hashem like Moshe did, achieving a prophecy with full bodily faculties rather than prophetic trance.
Why do we stand for the Ten Commandments if the Rambam calls it near heresy? The shiur develops a fundamental chakira: is Kriyas HaTorah a din of hearing Moshe's nevuah or a din of Talmud Torah? The Rambam holds the former—making standing for just the Aseres HaDibros problematic—while the Rif and Tosafos hold the latter, justifying the custom since we read tam elyon (prophecy) specifically there.
Why does the Torah single out the ger for a unique mitzvah of love, beyond general ahavas Yisrael? The Rambam teaches it's an extension of ahavas Hashem because the ger has sacrificed everything—family, past identity—for Torah alone. This shiur explores how that total devotion—where Yiddishkeit becomes one's entire reality—is Yisro's defining characteristic and the ideal the Torah world should embody, cutting across all social and economic divisions.
Why does the Torah present two seemingly contradictory accounts of Sinai—the fearful imposition in Parshas Yisro versus the festive covenant in Parshas Mishpatim? The shiur develops that Yisro represents unilateral obligation ("Naaseh"), while Mishpatim's bris creates an achdus where Torah becomes our ultimate fulfillment ("Naaseh V'Nishma"). Only through the bris does the decree of death cease and true conversion occur.
Why did Hashem initially plan for only Moshe to receive the Torah while Klal Yisroel stood outside? The shiur reveals two simultaneous dimensions at Har Sinai: collective national responsibility (through Moshe as sovereign representative) and individual personal liability (which Klal Yisroel themselves demanded). This dual structure explains Yisro's judicial system, the coercion of kafa aleihem har k'gigis, and why individual responsibility wasn't fully affirmed until Purim.
Why does the Torah present Matan Torah twice, with two starkly different moods—the fear and imposition of Parshas Yisro versus the intimacy and eating of Parshas Mishpatim? The shiur develops a fundamental yesod: Yisro depicts the unilateral imposition of mitzvos (lo si'al isha), while Mishpatim describes the brit, a bilateral covenant creating Yisrael v'Oraisa v'Kudsha Brich Hu chad. Both dimensions are essential to understanding Kabbalas HaTorah.
Can Torah be objectively recognized without mesorah? Yisro represents the crucial principle that emunah is not merely subjective tradition but an objective reality perceivable even by one with no prior connection. His coming after examining every avodah zarah proves that an unbiased observer can still reach truth—establishing that Kabbalat HaTorah rests on verifiable reality.
Why do Yisro and Mishpatim present such different accounts of Sinai - one fearful and trembling, the other celebratory? Both represent essential dimensions of Kabbalas HaTorah that occurred simultaneously. Yisro captures divine imposition establishing non-negotiable obligation, while Mishpatim represents the covenantal relationship enabling "na'aseh v'nishma."
Why did Yisro disagree with Moshe's judicial system where only Moshe could judge? The shiur develops Yisro's revolutionary insight that the divine attribute of Elokim - God's limited, impartable power - could be genuinely received and transmitted by qualified human judges. Moshe believed divine connection required direct attachment to Hashem's infinite nature, but Yisro understood that Elokim was accessible through finite means, enabling the entire system of delegated Torah authority.
Why did Yisro need to teach Moshe about appointing judges? The shiur develops a fundamental distinction: the name Elokim represents divine limitation and tzimtzum that can be imparted to human judges, while Hashem represents infinite transcendence beyond all kabbalah. Yisro's innovation was recognizing that connection to a talmid chacham is itself connection to Elokim—a foundational principle for the entire system of dayanim and the concept that benefiting from a talmid chacham is like benefiting from the Shechinah.
Why does Parshas Mishpatim immediately follow Maamad Har Sinai? The shiur develops that Yisro represents absolute subjugation—naaseh without reasons—while Mishpatim introduces the recognition of intrinsic human rights and zulato (the other). This transforms Torah observance from mere obedience into relationship, but only after the commitment of Yisro is firmly established first.
