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Why does the Torah (תורה) need both lo tignov and lo sachmod if they prohibit the same act of taking? The shiur reveals that jealousy stems from fundamental lack of self-worth, creating a parasitic mentality that seeks to destroy others rather than benefit oneself. True fulfillment comes through hakarat hatov and kibud av v'em, which justify our existence and eliminate the hollow feeling driving envy.
This shiur provides a comprehensive analysis of the tenth commandment, "Lo sachmod" (thou shall not covet), addressing four fundamental questions about this prohibition. Rabbi Zweig begins by examining the relationship between coveting and stealing, noting that lo sachmod requires an actual act of taking, not merely desiring what belongs to another. He questions why the Torah (תורה) needs both prohibitions if they cover the same act, and explores the dispute among poskim about whether paying for a coveted item still constitutes a violation. The analysis extends to the structure of the Aseres HaDibros (Ten Commandments), which can be read across in parallel columns. Rabbi Zweig investigates the connection between lo sachmod and kibud av v'em (honoring parents), demonstrating that this pairing is not coincidental but fundamental to understanding both commandments.
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Aseres HaDibros - Lo Sachmod
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