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Why did Moshe initially reject the women's copper mirrors for the Mishkan? The shiur explains that these mirrors weren't for makeup but for gender identity—helping Jewish men working women's jobs in Egypt remember they were men. Today's working families face a similar challenge: the validator spouse must affirm one's true identity, not just their professional success.
This shiur addresses the contemporary challenge of dual-income households through a deep analysis of Parshas Vayakhel. The Torah (תורה) records that women brought copper mirrors to donate to the Mishkan, which were used to construct the kiyor (washbasin). Rashi (רש"י) relates that Moshe Rabbeinu initially rejected these mirrors because they were instruments of the yetzer hara, designed to promote intimacy. Hashem (ה׳) overruled him, declaring these mirrors more precious than any other donation because through them the Jewish women built the nation in Egypt. Rabbi Zweig begins by establishing textual evidence for a conflict between Moshe and the women. The Torah states that "the women gathered together" (asher tzavu pesach (פסח) ohel moed) to bring these mirrors—an unusual formulation not used for any other donation. This gathering suggests a coordinated protest. The Targum Onkelos adds that they came "to pray," further indicating this was not a simple donation but required divine intervention.
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Vayakhel 38:8
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