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HolidaysMegillas Esther — Daily 2016intermediate

Megillas Esther: Esther's Beauty, Marriage Status, and Hidden Identity

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Short Summary

Rabbi Zweig analyzes Megillas Esther chapter 2, verses 8-10, exploring the language of beauty in Tanach, why unmarried women were preferred for Achashverosh's pageant, and the ideological disagreement between Mordechai and Esther regarding whether she should reveal her Jewish identity.

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This shiur provides an in-depth analysis of Megillas Esther chapter 2, verses 8-10, beginning with a detailed examination of the terminology used to describe beauty in Tanach. Rabbi Zweig distinguishes between "tovas mareh" (good-looking) and "yefas mareh" (beautiful), suggesting that tovas mareh represents a standard of attractiveness that brings honor and kavod to one's husband, while yefas mareh indicates exceptional physical beauty. He notes that Sarah is described as yefas mareh while Rivkah is called tovas mareh, and Esther herself is described as yefas toar. The discussion then turns to why Achashverosh specifically sought unmarried women (nar bisula) for his pageant. Rabbi Zweig proposes that this wasn't due to any halachic requirement for Persian kings, but rather stemmed from Achashverosh's deep insecurity following his humiliation by Vashti. His advisors recommended unmarried women because they would have no previous husband to compare him to, thus protecting his fragile ego. However, when Achashverosh became more secure in himself, he was willing to take married women as well, which explains why Esther, who was married to Mordechai according to Chazal, was still taken. The shiur explores the difference between "vatukach" (she was taken as an object) and "vatilakach" (she was taken with proper procedure), suggesting the latter shows more respect for the woman involved. Rabbi Zweig also discusses the role of Heigei as guardian of the women and the elaborate preparation process involving seven attendants for each candidate. The most significant insight concerns Mordechai's command to Esther not to reveal her nationality or lineage. Rabbi Zweig suggests this represents a fundamental ideological disagreement between them. Mordechai, viewing the Jewish people as self-hating Jews celebrating the end of their existence as a nation, believes they must hit rock bottom before they will change. He commands Esther to hide her identity so she won't be chosen, forcing the Jews to face their dire situation without false hope. Esther, however, may have held the opposite view - that the Jewish people needed leadership and hope. As a prophetess in her own right, she may have felt that becoming queen would position her to guide and protect the Jews from within the palace. This creates a fascinating dynamic where both Mordechai and Esther are operating from legitimate perspectives on how to save their people. Rabbi Zweig concludes that ultimately both approaches proved necessary - the Jews needed to reach the point of recognizing the futility of assimilation and self-hatred, while also requiring the leadership and advocacy that Esther would eventually provide as queen. This machloket (disagreement) between Mordechai and Esther reflects the complexity of Jewish survival in exile and the different strategies that may be needed in times of crisis.

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Megillas EstherMordechaiEstherAchashveroshbeautytovas marehyefas marehJewish identityassimilationPurimPersian exilemachloketnevuahprophecy

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