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Why does the Torah (תורה) execute the ben sorer u'moreh for minor theft while saving Yishmael despite his attempted murder? The shiur argues that true gemilus chasadim isn't just doing favors — it's building people's self-respect. When we fail in this obligation, children grow up without self-esteem, leading to spiritual destruction.
The shiur begins with a fundamental contradiction between two Torah (תורה) principles: the ben sorer u'moreh (rebellious son) who is executed for relatively minor infractions, versus Yishmael who was saved despite attempting murder. The Gemara (גמרא) in Rosh Hashanah establishes that a person is judged based on his current state, not his future potential — yet the ben sorer u'moreh seems to violate this principle by being killed for what he might become. Rabbi Zweig resolves this through a revolutionary understanding of gemilus chasadim based on the law of egla arufa (decapitated heifer). When a murder victim is found, the city elders must declare "our hands did not spill this blood." The Rambam (רמב"ם) explains that failing to escort a guest properly is tantamount to murder — but why should such a minor omission carry such severe consequences?
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