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Why did Yaakov bow to Yosef only after Yosef agreed to bury him in Eretz Yisrael? The Maharal explains that this demonstrates 'talmid be'idanei sagid lei' - we honor people when their divinely appointed time arrives, as evidenced by our need for them. This principle teaches that every person has inherent worth and a destined moment when the world needs them.
This shiur examines the Gemara (גמרא) Megillah's statement about Yaakov Avinu bowing to Yosef, introducing the principle of 'talmid be'idanei sagid lei' - bow to a fox in his time. The lecture begins by analyzing the context where Yaakov asks Yosef to bury him in Eretz Yisrael, and only after Yosef agrees does Yaakov bow to him. Various mefarshim offer different explanations for this sequence. The Nachlas Yaakov suggests this teaches us to humble ourselves to get others to fulfill our requests, though he notes Yaakov only bowed after Yosef agreed, not before. The Levush distinguishes this from kavod hamalchus (royal honor), arguing that talmid be'idanei sagid lei requires the recipient to know they're being honored for a purpose. The Maharal provides the deepest interpretation, connecting this concept to the Mishna 'ein lecha adam she'ein lo sha'ah' - there is no person who doesn't have their time. According to the Maharal, this isn't about flattery or manipulation to achieve goals, but rather recognition that every person has a divinely appointed time when the world needs them. When someone's time arrives - evidenced by their success or our need for them - we must honor them because this reveals their inherent worth and purpose in creation. The Maharal explains that Yaakov didn't bow initially to avoid appearing manipulative, but bowed afterward to demonstrate recognition of Yosef's sha'ah (appointed time). The shiur emphasizes that this principle applies universally - we can never degrade any person because everyone has value and a purpose in creation, even if not immediately apparent. This extends to self-worth as well; each person must recognize their own value and appointed time. The lecture concludes with practical applications for interpersonal relationships, emphasizing that recognizing everyone's inherent worth and divinely appointed purpose transforms how we interact with others and view ourselves in the world.
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