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Why did Reuven undergo nine years of fasting and sackcloth for moving his father's bed, long after Yaakov had forgiven him? The shiur develops the yesod that sin is not only about the victim's hurt—it affects everyone who witnessed the behavior, the community standard it set, and most fundamentally, God Himself. True repentance means recognizing our responsibility to the entire world, not just fixing interpersonal relationships.
Rabbi Zweig addresses a profound question from Parshas Vayeishev: Why was Reuven absent when his brothers sold Yosef? Rashi (רש"י) explains that Reuven was either tending to his father or engaged in penitential fasting and wearing sackcloth—practices he had maintained for approximately nine years since he moved Yaakov's bed from Bilhah's tent to Leah's tent after Rochel's death. This timeline seems inexplicable: Reuven was around 14-15 when the incident with the bed occurred, and now at 23-24, he was still doing intense penance. Could Yaakov have been so unforgiving that he kept his son in a state of guilt for nearly a decade? The Midrash states that Reuven was the first person to truly engage in teshuva (תשובה) (repentance), and therefore his descendant Hoshea became the prophet whose words we read on Shabbos (שבת) Shuva, calling the Jewish people to repentance. But this raises another difficulty: Adam repented after his sin, as did Cain after killing Hevel. Why is Reuven considered the first penitent? The standard answer is that Adam and Cain only repented after being called to account by God, whereas Reuven's repentance was more voluntary. But this distinction is weak, since the Torah (תורה) indicates Yaakov knew what Reuven had done, suggesting he may have confronted him as well.
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Bereishis 37:29 (Vayeishev), Bereishis 31:44-53 (Vayeitzei)
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