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Can a husband divorce his wife without explicitly saying so? The Gemara (גמרא) explores when physical delivery alone suffices for divorce versus kiddushin, developing a fundamental distinction: by divorce, the woman is merely the object of the action (no da'as isha required), whereas kiddushin requires her consent as a party. The shiur also analyzes whether dalet amos grants Torah (תורה)-level or rabbinic ownership in divorce and kiddushin contexts.
This shiur analyzes Gittin 78a's discussion of divorce without an explicit declaration (amira), contrasting the requirements for gittin versus kiddushin. Rabbi Zweig opens by examining the Rambam (רמב"ם)'s position in Hilchos Gerushin that no amira is needed for divorce when the get is given b'toras gerushin (in the context of divorce). The critical question is how we know it's being done "b'toras gerushin" without explicit words. The Rambam's treatment in different halachos reveals a fundamental distinction. In Hilchos Ishus (kiddushin), the Rambam requires that the words be mashma kiddushin—clearly indicative of marriage intent. In Hilchos Gerushin, however, words with dual meanings (mashma'os) are valid midoraisa, though pasul only miderabbanan. This suggests that kiddushin requires yedayim mochichos (clear indication), while gittin requires only yedayim (some indication), even if not entirely unambiguous.
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Gittin 78a
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